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I have unfortunately got this topic stuck in my brain today but suddenly thought what an important topic this could be to share with others.
Now days its not uncommon to hear people throwing around the term 'narcissist' but unless you've truely experienced the kind of abuse you will suffer If one of these people manages to weasel into your life your probably fairly clueless to how severe you could by made to suffer when having dealings with these people.
I've decided that this is a topic I need to share with others and truely hope you take the time to read so you can learn to recognise these people and realise before its too late how important it is to steer clear of them. In fact I'd actually suggest you run far away from these people as fast as possible.
Narcissistic Personality Disorder
- The hallmarks of Narcissistic Personality Disorder (NPD) are grandiosity, a lack of empathy for other people, and a need for admiration. People with this condition are frequently described as arrogant, self-centered, manipulative, and demanding.
(I have to add a complete disregard for the rights of other unless the protection of the rights of others could in anyway benefit the NPD person).
Symptoms
Narcissistic personality disorder is indicated by five or more of the following symptoms:
If you ever get the time and if you feel like it, I highly recommend this particular website for a really in-depth view and understanding of these people, there many deliberating behaviours and as well information on other 'Cluster - B' personality types and ways to deal with these people if your unfortunate like me and have managed to get stuck with a NPD person in your life. This website has some really great read but also I feel its one website that truely understands and explains the level of abuse you will likely suffer if you let a NPD person into your life.
http://flyingmonkeysdenied.com/what-is-narcissistic-personality-disorder/
If you have been targeted for abuse by a narcissistic person or group of narcissistic peers who have banded together to bully, intimidate, or shame you while they stimulate their own sadistic perverse streak during the act of mobbing, don’t think you are alone. With an estimated 6% of the global population meeting diagnostic criteria for having this sort of personality disorder, very few people on the planet have not come across one of these toxic people in their lifetime.
One of the best ways to determine if a person has NPD or not is to simply listen to them talk.
Grandiose to the extreme and utterly egocentric, it’s difficult for them to praise other people or even validate opinions that are not in accordance or agreement with their own.
Actually I really think I have to add a little about another similar disorder.
Anti Social Personality Disorder (ASPD)
Not only can folks be considered Anti-Social in general (a mild condition that emotionally disconnects a person from friends, family, and all others not like them among humanity), there are more extreme personality disorders like fully blown Sociopathy or Psychopathy, Malignant Narcissists, and other people who have comorbid conditions like Narcopaths (people whose fundamental core nature is extremely sociopathic and narcissistic by diagnostic criteria at the same time).
In children, the precursor to having Anti-Social Personality Disorder is something called “Childhood Conduct Disorder”. Children with such personality types have roughly a 50/50 chance of developing the condition when full-grown.
IMPORTANT!!!
People with ASPD tend to seek out and find others like themselves. They prefer to use and abuse Empaths, People Pleasers, and people with high levels of emotional sensitivity.
(Personally I strongly believe most abusers have a preference for empaths and HSP because we are often likely to keep considering the rights of people around us and keep show them compassion despite the fact our own rights are likely being abused or disregarded. We give and give and give! I can tell you that in my own toxic relationship, I have considered what the abuser wanted as he broke down before my eyes, he wanted me to stay with him in the relationship. I put what he wanted before myself and what I wanted, which was to leave the relationship.)
If you are a kind person, expect the mind control and psychological games that all ASPD thinkers play to have a dramatic impact on your life, health, and family members each and every day.
If you are targeted romantically by one, end the social and emotional enmeshment as quickly as possible.
Is Your Partner a Narcissist? Checklist
The family unit epitomizes narcissistic values and entitlement thinking. Personality types of atypical people — those viewed as the creators of chaos or purveyors of bullying behaviors — include people with the following natures:
Several kinds of Cluster B personality types are considered “untreatable” for this reason. Because there is no illness, technically speaking there can be nothing to cure.
Honestly I'm kinda done with typing so I'm just gonna end it there but please feel free to tell me of your own experience with people like this in your life or ask any questions or whatever.
Now days its not uncommon to hear people throwing around the term 'narcissist' but unless you've truely experienced the kind of abuse you will suffer If one of these people manages to weasel into your life your probably fairly clueless to how severe you could by made to suffer when having dealings with these people.
I've decided that this is a topic I need to share with others and truely hope you take the time to read so you can learn to recognise these people and realise before its too late how important it is to steer clear of them. In fact I'd actually suggest you run far away from these people as fast as possible.
Narcissistic Personality Disorder
- The hallmarks of Narcissistic Personality Disorder (NPD) are grandiosity, a lack of empathy for other people, and a need for admiration. People with this condition are frequently described as arrogant, self-centered, manipulative, and demanding.
(I have to add a complete disregard for the rights of other unless the protection of the rights of others could in anyway benefit the NPD person).
Symptoms
Narcissistic personality disorder is indicated by five or more of the following symptoms:
- Exaggerates own importance
- Is preoccupied with fantasies of success, power, beauty, intelligence or ideal romance
- Believes he or she is special and can only be understood by other special people (Often other Narcissists) or institutions
- Requires constant attention and admiration from others
- Has unreasonable expectations of favorable treatment
- Takes advantage of others to reach his or her own goals
- Disregards the feelings of others, lacks empathy
- Is often envious of others or believes other people are envious of him or her
- Shows arrogant behaviors and attitudes
If you ever get the time and if you feel like it, I highly recommend this particular website for a really in-depth view and understanding of these people, there many deliberating behaviours and as well information on other 'Cluster - B' personality types and ways to deal with these people if your unfortunate like me and have managed to get stuck with a NPD person in your life. This website has some really great read but also I feel its one website that truely understands and explains the level of abuse you will likely suffer if you let a NPD person into your life.
http://flyingmonkeysdenied.com/what-is-narcissistic-personality-disorder/
If you have been targeted for abuse by a narcissistic person or group of narcissistic peers who have banded together to bully, intimidate, or shame you while they stimulate their own sadistic perverse streak during the act of mobbing, don’t think you are alone. With an estimated 6% of the global population meeting diagnostic criteria for having this sort of personality disorder, very few people on the planet have not come across one of these toxic people in their lifetime.
One of the best ways to determine if a person has NPD or not is to simply listen to them talk.
Grandiose to the extreme and utterly egocentric, it’s difficult for them to praise other people or even validate opinions that are not in accordance or agreement with their own.
- Listen for caustic ad hominem attacks on people or groups of people by stereotype.
- Pay attention to irrational conversation tactic use life deliberate obfuscation or truth, revisionist history writing, or word salad.
- Watch for changes in eye contact or body posture as a puffed up narcissist trying to convince someone to bend to their will or agree with a clearly ridiculous and/or illogical statement they know is false by using their physicality to intimidate them.
- Then, pay careful attention to what seems to psychologically (albeit irrationally) insult or anger the person whose nature or temperament is in question.
Actually I really think I have to add a little about another similar disorder.
Anti Social Personality Disorder (ASPD)
Not only can folks be considered Anti-Social in general (a mild condition that emotionally disconnects a person from friends, family, and all others not like them among humanity), there are more extreme personality disorders like fully blown Sociopathy or Psychopathy, Malignant Narcissists, and other people who have comorbid conditions like Narcopaths (people whose fundamental core nature is extremely sociopathic and narcissistic by diagnostic criteria at the same time).
In children, the precursor to having Anti-Social Personality Disorder is something called “Childhood Conduct Disorder”. Children with such personality types have roughly a 50/50 chance of developing the condition when full-grown.
IMPORTANT!!!
People with ASPD tend to seek out and find others like themselves. They prefer to use and abuse Empaths, People Pleasers, and people with high levels of emotional sensitivity.
(Personally I strongly believe most abusers have a preference for empaths and HSP because we are often likely to keep considering the rights of people around us and keep show them compassion despite the fact our own rights are likely being abused or disregarded. We give and give and give! I can tell you that in my own toxic relationship, I have considered what the abuser wanted as he broke down before my eyes, he wanted me to stay with him in the relationship. I put what he wanted before myself and what I wanted, which was to leave the relationship.)
If you are a kind person, expect the mind control and psychological games that all ASPD thinkers play to have a dramatic impact on your life, health, and family members each and every day.
If you are targeted romantically by one, end the social and emotional enmeshment as quickly as possible.
Is Your Partner a Narcissist? Checklist
- When something goes wrong, does your partner blame everyone but himself or herself?
- Does your partner refuse to be accountable for his or her bad behavior? (For example, “You made me so mad that I couldn’t help . . .”)
- Does your partner believe he or she is always right?
- Is your partner unable to tune in to your feelings or your children’s feelings?
- Does your partner seem more concerned about how your behavior or your children’s behavior reflects on him or her than on understanding and accepting who you and the kids are as people?
- Does your partner seem to be out of touch with his or her own feelings or seem to deny them?
- Does your partner carry grudges against you and others?
- Is it all about your partner and his/her money, time, parenting time, property, and wishes/demands?
- Does your partner seem unwilling to listen to you and to hear your concerns?
- Is your partner constantly telling you what to do?
The family unit epitomizes narcissistic values and entitlement thinking. Personality types of atypical people — those viewed as the creators of chaos or purveyors of bullying behaviors — include people with the following natures:
- Narcissistic Personality Disorder (NPD)
- Anti-Social Personality Disorder (ASPD)
- Sociopaths
- Psychopaths
- Histrionic Personality Disorder (HPD)
- Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD)
- Malignant Narcissists (MN)
- Narcopaths Narcissistic Sociopaths)
- Dark Triad (Malignant Narcissistic ASPD)
- Those with TBI (Traumatic Brain Injuries)
- Those under the age of 4 (children); those functionally impaired by physical age or mental handicap
- Those with addictions issues (including but not limited to drugs, alcohol, gambling habits, compulsive spending issues, or sex addictions)
Several kinds of Cluster B personality types are considered “untreatable” for this reason. Because there is no illness, technically speaking there can be nothing to cure.
Honestly I'm kinda done with typing so I'm just gonna end it there but please feel free to tell me of your own experience with people like this in your life or ask any questions or whatever.