What traits would you put you off dating someone

[Tony Ramirez]

Perhaps I should clarify that I am not talking about ignoring someone while in a relationship with them. I am referring to simply never starting any kind of romantic relationship with them at all. Like they most likely never even suspect that you ever felt anything at all and if they ask you out you turn down the offer.

Story of my life.

 

[Judge]

I am referring to simply never starting any kind of romantic relationship with them at all.

Interesting. So it's not about dating per se, as you have absolutely no interest in a romantic relationship with anyone.

It just seemed confusing- even contradicting that you would weigh in on a dating thread. We have a few of such people here with such a mindset. That's allowed, though confusing at times.

 

[FayetheAspie]

Interesting. So it's not about dating per se, as you have absolutely no interest in a romantic relationship with anyone.

It just seemed confusing- even contradicting that you would weigh in on a dating thread. We have a few of such people here with such a mindset. That's allowed, though confusing at times.

Obsessing over science facts, science experiments, and puzzle games together would be dating and would be romantic in it's own way if such a person existed. They don't have to do the photography and calligraphy themselves as long as they at least like my artwork. Though it could be neat if we had that in common too.

 

[FayetheAspie]

Story of my life.

I don't really think I am a good representation of young women in general. Most of my peers find me weird.

 

[FayetheAspie]

Interesting. So it's not about dating per se, as you have absolutely no interest in a romantic relationship with anyone.

It just seemed confusing- even contradicting that you would weigh in on a dating thread. We have a few of such people here with such a mindset. That's allowed, though confusing at times.

Obsessing over science facts, science experiments, and puzzle games together would be dating and would be romantic in it's own way if such a person existed. They don't have to do the photography and calligraphy themselves as long as they at least like my artwork. Though it could be neat if we had that in common too.

That is why I posted it here because it is about dating.

 

[Ari7]

People that say harsh and from "I'm up here and you're down there" perspective, telling you it's your problem if you get upset--you needed to hear the truth anyway, grow up.

People that overly judge without an in of empathy (natural or self made). You will never know their situation in full, and you may one day be on that other side.

People that like regaggeton. Sorry. Cannot.

 

[paloftoon]

Someone with an OF but isn't making a lot of money or willing to share the wealth if they are, lol.

 

[FayetheAspie]

I realize some of my requirements (such as liking sports disqualifying someone probably sound unreasonable and at times they even do to me yet tend to cycle back in). Let me explain the sports one. As most of you already know I have ADHD (including hyperactivity). When football would come on as a small child my dad was crazy over it. I had to sit perfectly still during the game. I did not even know what was going on in the game I just wanted to go do something fun but I had to sit there and I had to be still so I just concentrated on not moving and watching the time count down. If I moved he would hit my Mama's leg and leave bruises where no one would see them and say it was my fault. It is hard to separate the idea of watching sports from these memories.