I feel she is a typical therapists, who believes she is the best authority and I could picture how being rather condescending to an aspie, who is in front of her. A few things she said made me think: wow she is human after all lol
Unfortunately, what she said regarding marriage between an aspie and nt, is pretty accurate. My husband does feel that he has to walk on eggshells with me and often used to complain that I never touch him! He says that occasionally he feels I love him, but most times, doesn't and yep, I do feel resentment when he complains about our marriage and have thoughts of: what the heck do you want from me? I tried to say that I love him in my own way, but now that I know why I am like it, I can better explain it, but need to feel cautions because he may consider I am using my aspie nature to get away with things.
We are not connected, so she is accurate about that. Yet to outsiders, it would appear so! We are always holding hands outside and always smiling to each other, but once we are at home, I have to remind myself to go and see him. It is like I have this little alert beside me that says: time to say this or do that etc. It is very draining!