hurtloam
Well-Known Member
What I find difficult is when I like someone I just want to say it straight out, but my timing always seems to be wrong. Like it's too soon, they don't know me so well and are cautious. There must be something in my demeanor that says "this girl wants a serious relationship" and men seem to feel like if they get involved with me then they have to commit to me completely, so instead, they run away. Weird thing is it's not like I'm asking them to marry me, all I want is just to spend more time with them, but they run away.
I don't blurt out "I love you", before anyone asks, that would be stupid. I just try and spend more time with them. Invite them places with other friends, but even that is too scary. One of my friends says, "well that means he's just not that into you." but they never are.
Maybe I'm not a very warm person. Maybe my approach to dating is too business like or something. I don't know. Anyone else have any similar problems and what do you do about it?
I don't blurt out "I love you", before anyone asks, that would be stupid. I just try and spend more time with them. Invite them places with other friends, but even that is too scary. One of my friends says, "well that means he's just not that into you." but they never are.
Maybe I'm not a very warm person. Maybe my approach to dating is too business like or something. I don't know. Anyone else have any similar problems and what do you do about it?