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This was my first post here.

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TheFoz

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Hi there, I just found out this week that I have Asperger's (psychiatrist said so, but didn't include it in his official diagnosis for my doctor) but I need to get a confirmation.

quick question though:

In the Advertising and Soliciting section of the forum rules, it is written;
"Members may not solicit others to...give written testimonies - even if Autism related"

Maybe this just shows that I belong here, really (i'm.not.trolling) can i be kicked out for asking what people "...did when _____ happened to them?"
 
Hi and welcome!

As for your question. People in general wont be kicked out that easy :) If anything you'd receive a warning of sorts adressing the issue.

If anything, maybe you're reading into it much. The rule is mostly about not bothering members to participate in research and the like, since that might be overwhelming to some here. There's nothing wrong if you ask people that have a similar experience how they went on about it. That's the support often found here actually. Just don't be upset if members don't want to go to extensive lengths about it, some rather not discuss it in full length. Some might eventually ask if they can discuss it in private with you even (through private messages).

But you'll be fine around here, don't worry :) Just respect others and don't force them into anything like I said earlier.
 
Welcome Foz! It must bee cool newbies day: Element just joined in as well. This is a great international community: you have just spoken to Singapore, the Netherlands & now Quebec. Welcome & I hope you make many friends & get to know us.
 
Hello Foz, and welcome to Aspies Central. This post comes from a Massachusetts-born 23-year-old Aspie who was diagnosed at the age of six. As you can tell by what Soup posted, we are a great community (I personally think of us as a close-knit family). I hope you enjoy all the great things this forum has to offer.
 
Thank you for the warm welcomes, and thank you for the clarification on the rules. I am often so literal in reading rules (except when i simply substitute my own personal code for the rules that may be in place already), that I find myself really restrained in figuring out how to be in compliance and an irrational fear of being caught breaking those rules. Now I still don't know what exactly the proscribed behavior is, but I will restrain myself to simply asking my questions to the community as a whole.

Would it also be OK to solicit followups or more details in responding to a forum post?
 
Responding to a forum post would be fine.. .everyone does it to some extent. And if you're, really, really, realy uncertain and in fear of getting in trouble over it, ask a moderator.

But I really doubt it's anything worth getting in trouble for :)

Also, and maybe this makes it a bit more unclear for you. It's rules and guidelines ;) but in general we're a flexible and tolerant bunch here, both members as well as staff. I can't recall anyone getting in trouble for asking follow ups at all.

Like I said; If we as staff think it's against the rules we'll give you a heads up. Rather just explain what's wrong so you have a better understanding about it and can see if you look into your troublesome behaviour in the future. But let's not get ahead of ourselves, talking about getting in trouble and all already. We don't want people to be overly cautious and in fear for moderators and the banhammer.
 
Welcome to AC. Please feel free to ask questions. Many of us are happy to share our experience and point of view.
 
Thank you all for the warm welcomes.

As I learn about my Aspie traits, I've learned that my literalism is far from NT, and constant requests for clarification are off-putting. Thank you for taking the time to indulge me on this topic. I think I get it enough to keep myself in line.
 
StephF said:
Heyyy it's the Foz. Looks like we're in for Happy Days. =D
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Or not. TheFoz was last seen: Jun 15, 2013. But the last time I saw the Fonz in person was 2009 at Hot August Nights.

Ayyyyyyyyyyy. Reno's citywide classic car show. He's aged a bit...as have I. :eek:

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Odd the Happy Days cast was there...when the cars were all from "American Graffiti". :confused:
 
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King_Oni said:
Hi and welcome!

As for your question. People in general wont be kicked out that easy :) If anything you'd receive a warning of sorts adressing the issue.

If anything, maybe you're reading into it much. The rule is mostly about not bothering members to participate in research and the like, since that might be overwhelming to some here. There's nothing wrong if you ask people that have a similar experience how they went on about it. That's the support often found here actually. Just don't be upset if members don't want to go to extensive lengths about it, some rather not discuss it in full length. Some might eventually ask if they can discuss it in private with you even (through private messages).

But you'll be fine around here, don't worry :) Just respect others and don't force them into anything like I said earlier.
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Thank you KO. I had some similar type question that is about or how we can do something to help someone, a gift let's say, a work of art, a lagniappe?
 
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