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I hate meds! But I am dealing with two men who believe that is how it should go and well, both being neurotypical, does tend to override my feelings.
As it is, I am going to face a battle, because as far as my therapist is concerned, I am only going today, to check on how the meds he prescribed for me are doing and thus, he is not going to be chuffed when I tell him I stopped taking them and just hope my husband backs me up on why I stopped taking them.
The thing is, regarding anger, is that my husband is of the mind that am in control and that he has no role in my anger, despite the fact that his lack of reasoning and logic is what gets me so fuelled up! And so, since he won't change and I can't, then if meds are available that do not cause weight gain, I will at least try them.
I do not live in Paris, so not an option for me. Basically, a good 6hr drive to there. And no, I am not fluent in French and what makes it worse is that we are sure my therapist is not French and why I find it virtually impossible to understand him, but he seems to understand when I explain in English, something to my husband; just not able to speak English, but is happy to use google translater.
I disagree that genuine love and abuse can coexist.
Why wouldn’t her word be enough? If she tells her husband that she can’t do XYZ, then that should be all the explanation required.
Leave him and come back to the UK. He will slowly destroy you.