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Still waiting for a first date..

Mr Allen said:
The OP is in their 20s and not dated? I beat that mate, I'm 40 and the nearest thing I ever went on to a date was taking a girl from school to the Cinema when I was about 15.
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That is a date.
 
FayetheADHDsquirrel said:
Huh? From the wording it sounded as though he thought he had never been on one at all and I was pointing out that the trip to the cinema would actually count as one. I apologize if it somehow sounded like a taunt of some kind.
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well because its reminds me, even guys, men, who have a much better mentality or behave better than me and tony do, they are still at higher risk of being forever alone, celibate, naturally, being the male gender means that, if you just exist, just breathing and having a pulse, it doesn't guarantee you a relationship
 
VictorR said:
No one is guaranteed a relationship regardless of gender or lack thereof.


"in this world nothing can be said to be certain, except death and taxes."
- Benjamin Franklin
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well it naturally feels that way for men more than women, which i will always be a broken record on, because of men always having to be the ones to pursue and court women, do the initiating
 
Don't wait. Look for platonic friends and work on yourself. If you're okay with apps, try apps if you haven't already. If you aren't independent, this can help with potential eligibility a lot. Work on skills to help you become more independent.
 
Ironic to look back when I long ago chose to eschew the very concept of dating, opting instead to make friends of the opposite sex.

Yet in the process I never gave any thought to guys as competitors. It just never came up in my mind to think about them, let alone disparage them. That to be romantically successful with women depends on our own resources and little else. Much the way I think about personal finance.

Perhaps it might be relative to my inability to experience jealousy or envy. I'm not sure...but it reminded me of how much trouble I once got into with a girlfriend over my lack of jealousy. :confused:
 
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