I thought I was seeing a psychiatrist the other day ( ended up being a pychologist). Anyway, I had made up my mind and still of the same frame of mind, to not go there in the hope of being officalised for having aspergers, since France is very backwards in this area and I have not the "tools" to keep up with a barriage of negativity and so, the best way is to not even go there. Instead, concentrate on social phobia ( I do not believe it is social anxiety and it was another aspie on here, who got me thinking on this. I do not feel anxious going out of my home; I feel FEAR, which equals phobia). With trepidation, because when ever I have an idea that would go very well for me, it always comes to nothing, but this, I do feel quietly confident, that I will get a diagnosis straight away.
So, I go into the room and in itself, it was very embarrassing, because the scene is set for one to be vunerable. I start talking and find myself basing my talk around having aspergers. To be fair, though, my husband did start the ball rolling, when he told her about my obsessions and said: can you believe she got obsessed with ebola?! And think, in fact, this could have "kick started" in my psychologial brain to further the conversation ie like almost "hinting" to her or "nudging" her mentally, to pick up on the clues. I was so frustrated, because that was not my intention, besides, those who would have to know I have aspergers, take me for being an aspie, just by my actions; so really, all I need it for is to confirm to myself and also to have more of a sort of grounding on here, for when ones who suspect they have aspergers, but want to confirm. How, in truth, can I confirm that is how aspergers is, if I am not actually official? So, I try to be honest in that regard, so as to not give false information out.
I am just disappointed that I worded my sentences in such a way as to prompt a reaction.
So, I go into the room and in itself, it was very embarrassing, because the scene is set for one to be vunerable. I start talking and find myself basing my talk around having aspergers. To be fair, though, my husband did start the ball rolling, when he told her about my obsessions and said: can you believe she got obsessed with ebola?! And think, in fact, this could have "kick started" in my psychologial brain to further the conversation ie like almost "hinting" to her or "nudging" her mentally, to pick up on the clues. I was so frustrated, because that was not my intention, besides, those who would have to know I have aspergers, take me for being an aspie, just by my actions; so really, all I need it for is to confirm to myself and also to have more of a sort of grounding on here, for when ones who suspect they have aspergers, but want to confirm. How, in truth, can I confirm that is how aspergers is, if I am not actually official? So, I try to be honest in that regard, so as to not give false information out.
I am just disappointed that I worded my sentences in such a way as to prompt a reaction.