Puppywings49
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I've always been confusde about this. It always seemed like exaggeration to me, to more clearly show without telling what the characters are feeling. For example,
"His shoulders tensed, and I trailed off, not wanting to upset him with discussion of a touchy subject."
I understand from context that his shoulders tensing means he is uncomfortable or upset. But I never notice these things in real life.
My friends, when I asked, just shrugged. My sister just laughed a bit and didn't answer. I don't want to ask my father because he'll respond with a thirty minute non-answer.
My mom, however, says that it's not exaggeration, and that it's actually very limited and picked through compared to real life.
So to any non-autistics who may be reading this: are body language descriptions in books realistic? If it is, how do you keep up with all of that information?
"His shoulders tensed, and I trailed off, not wanting to upset him with discussion of a touchy subject."
I understand from context that his shoulders tensing means he is uncomfortable or upset. But I never notice these things in real life.
My friends, when I asked, just shrugged. My sister just laughed a bit and didn't answer. I don't want to ask my father because he'll respond with a thirty minute non-answer.
My mom, however, says that it's not exaggeration, and that it's actually very limited and picked through compared to real life.
So to any non-autistics who may be reading this: are body language descriptions in books realistic? If it is, how do you keep up with all of that information?