Hello all. I'm sorry I only post when I have a problem, but I'm a bit lost and looking for advice from fellow aspies; I know I can always count on you. Anyway, I've known a girl for about a year and a half, and it was like a love at first sight kind of deal. She was sweet as sugar, sharp as a tack, and witty like Oscar Wilde, not to mention beautiful. We go to the same college, have been in some of the same classes for three semesters, but that's about it. We are friends, don't get me wrong, but we don't see each other much outside of class. I just saw her in a play, she's an actress, and I was enthralled. I was so taken, I wanted to slap the taste out of the mouth of the actor that was "deflowering" her, staged of course. Luckily I didn't express this outwardly as I was sitting next to her mother, very nice lady by the way (kindness begets kindness, a lesson I learned both on the forum and with the mother and daughter). But I can't stop thinking about her, and can't help but think others are too. I think she's single, and I want to get to know her better, but I'm afraid to make a move, and if I don't make a move, someone else will, and I'll be stuck in the friendzone for life. I don't know what to do. I don't want to ruin our friendship, but I want to progress as well. Help!
Sidenote, she's one of the few people on campus who know I have Asperger's. I broke down in a class and left. She offered her notes to copy. I figured she deserved an explanation of why I was so anxious and awkward in class.
Sidenote, she's one of the few people on campus who know I have Asperger's. I broke down in a class and left. She offered her notes to copy. I figured she deserved an explanation of why I was so anxious and awkward in class.