I do ignore some of those I think are trolls, but I dont know if they are currently active.
I find interesting that you (
@SimonSays ) are reflecting on the ignoring thing. You said that you had avoided real life conversations and just ignored the other people.
Is this thread related to your personal way of dealing with problems?
About how about to be ignored myself, I am ignored by many people in real life. Its really sad, but I propably did hurt them in some way or they find me undesirable so ignoring me its probably the way they deal with that. So I accept it and dont blame them. They have the rigth to protect themself against me and my ideas. I actually think that many ignore me to be protected against my ideas or my constant challenge to the way they see the world. Usually because how they see the world includes insults toward me or other people I care, like when they insult women, insult neuro divergent, or (in this forum) insult people who watch porn. Is it better to ignore them? Is it better not to ignore them and engage in the topic? Is it worth to engage even if it is not going to work and they will keep thinking bad of others? Is it worth to my soul to be part of the problem by ignoring the topic and pretending words were never said?
We usually talk about how good it is telling the truth, but as a very assertive person who often engages in discussions (and dont ignore them) I can say first hand that even with good data and even trying not to hurt others it may be better to ignore. What do I get from entering those topics? Usually nothing, people who think bad of women will keep thinking the same. People who think bad of men will keep thinking the same. Same goes for people thinking bad of autists or porn watchers. Or black people or whatever other group. What do I get? A false ilussion of being helping to solve the hate problem of mankind? To get ignored myself?
As an example, every time I participate in a porn thread I get the feeling that I had better ignored it instead of entering the discussion. I just find hard to ignore people, but Im learning about it.
I guess there is a correct way of doing it, not ignoring neither engaging, but I have not find it yet. This is a hard topic for me.