I don't do love

[I love roses]

I'm sorry , I didn't get updates to this link .

Lots of valued comments here .

This is a difficult topic , it's basically who I am .
Or who I am not .

It's the most common thing I get as feed back .
I'm not sure I put anyone in preference. I do to a point but
It's more familiarity .

Is this state upsetting, yes .

Do I blame myself for relationship difficulties, yes. I have to .

Recently I've come to realise the same situation effects the idea
Of friends. I view most people in one format.

In some relationships I've had to act as care , then I felt I was blank for a
Reason .

I have relationship situations right now that are a ticking bomb .

Sorry for my over long input on this thread .

Lots of strange things are going on right now .

 

[I love roses]

Sorry you’re having a rough time. Sending prayers/wishes for better times and easement of the situation. Hope things get better.

 

[OkRad]

I try to judge my emotions when I know I am safe. When I am safe, I feel differently about people than when I feel unsafe. So I can say I do love . When I am not safe, I can't.

It is hard to figure out how I would feel about people if I had not had to fight so hard. Maybe I would just be a hard butt and not care. Part of my suffering has caused me to have a tremendous amount of empathy, but I cannot tap into it when I still feel unsafe and unsettled.

 

[Bella Pines]

I don't do love either.

I do I infatuation too. I do loyalty and fondness. I do protectiveness.

But I don't exhibit "love type behaviour" like NTs.

 

[I love roses]

Me too! I hate infatuation. It can feel like a fever, to the point of pain.

 

[Tom]

Love for me is like those cheap romance novels you see in the drug stores. Plus, who can resist chain mail mini skirts?

 

[Littlemissnaughty9]

I'm sorry , I didn't get updates to this link .

Lots of valued comments here .

This is a difficult topic , it's basically who I am .
Or who I am not .

It's the most common thing I get as feed back .
I'm not sure I put anyone in preference. I do to a point but
It's more familiarity .

Is this state upsetting, yes .

Do I blame myself for relationship difficulties, yes. I have to .

Recently I've come to realise the same situation effects the idea
Of friends. I view most people in one format.

In some relationships I've had to act as care , then I felt I was blank for a
Reason .

I have relationship situations right now that are a ticking bomb .

Sorry for my over long input on this thread .

Lots of strange things are going on right now .

Quite Interesting, a *ticking bomb* sounds correct..it must be and is very difficult for you indeed.

 

[HermanHesse]

I dont know if I love But one thing I know is that I never hated someone, I hate the things they do sometimes.

Is that an autistic thing. Hate is very normal for human beings.