There are things that are real which you may fight and beat, but you cannot successfully fight against the nature of reality itself and win. That will always be frustrating, both for the person doing the fighting and for the people who try to help that person. From what I can see the people on this forum who are critical of you are not being mean, they're trying to help you, and they're frustrated - you seem to be frustrated too.
You will go on and on about 'equality' at the same time as you want special treatment because you're different. These are two very different and opposite things, and you don't seem to understand that.
...I'll spare you my long rant about the enforcement, or rather lack thereof, of the equality laws...
Thanks for sparing us that. It might be a healthy exercise for you to write that rant in a text file for yourself, then read it while asking yourself if the ranting person is asking to be treated the same as everybody else, or is asking to be treated differently. If everyone else is wearing the uniform and you want to not wear it, you're asking to be treated differently, not asking to be treated the same, not asking to be treated as an equal.
You don't seem to have tried thinking of this from any other perspective than your own. You're not the only person applying for these jobs. You know what it's like to be in your position when others get the job, imagine what it would be like for someone else if you got the job. They have worked in paying jobs for the last twenty years, they are better able to do the job than you, they can wear the uniform for example. They have been paying taxes to support you, and they need this job not for a bit of extra money, but to support themselves and you as well, possibly a spouse and children on top of that. In spite of being less qualified you get the job, now they need another job to support themselves and the person who just took 'their' job, and you had help to do it that they don't have (Autism Plus for example). You've used his own tax money against him. Has the government represented him fairly? What sort of rant might he have to post?
The way I see it you have two ways you can end your frustration. You could choose to fight a different battle, stop trying to gain the type of employment that you are, expecting to be treated as a 'normal' person at the same time as getting special treatment (accept a lower wage, or accept being unemployed) - OR - you can accept the fact that you are not equal, that the same government you wish would enforce these 'equality laws' is giving you disability money BECAUSE you are not equally capable of working.
It's nice to have laws that treat people equally, but in reality people are simply not equal. If you want help getting something off the top shelf and two people are there to ask for help, one is short and the other is tall, you're going to ask the tall person. The short person will not be offended and go on about how they're equal. The short person may be better at something else, but FOR THIS JOB they are clearly unequal.
For any job some people will be more suited than others, and no law will change that. If that did change it would take away your disability benefits, wouldn't it?