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How To Attract Women Without Saying Anything! 😎

Yeah, I just told you that I see most women preferring a partner that is how I've described. Don't be condescending just because I'm younger than you. It's rude behaviour. You didn't even respond to what I said specifically.
You stated, “We are all humans so we are the same. We have the same desires…” This sounds like the perspective of someone who has not met many people in the world. This is an immature perspective of humans and desire.

There are some things that can only be learned with more time in the world.

Why do you never see women say they want a shorter poor guy?
I have frequently spoken to women who say they don’t care as much about height, clothes and money as they do about personality and compatibility. Every woman in my life is like that.

But, I didn’t bother adding this in my previous post because I have a feeling that the women that I have spoken to in my lifetime and what they have shared won’t really have much of an impact on your thinking. You have your thoughts based on your experiences in the world and until your experiences change, your thoughts are likely to remain the same.

In the end, I wish you well and hope that you don’t always devalue yourself as much as you seem to now.
 

A gift of cheese would definitely fascinate me. There's a custom somewhere in Italy, maybe in Bologna, to celebrate Saint Andrew that involves men and women carrying around live basil plants to show that they are looking for love. So, if I were in Italy and a man gave me a basil plant and a chunk of parmesan cheese, I'd be smitten and cook pasta for him. :D
 
still, nevertheless, i think its human nature, instinct, to want to stand up for yourself if you feel someone has wronged you or bullied you, made fun of you, even if it means suffering legal consequences, i figure the reason we have laws is to suppress people from acting on their instincts whether they are wrong or good.
"Human nature" is the reason why we need laws and the police force. :cool:

Still, my mindset of wanting to beat that guy up for saying that to me, is to basically say to him "i'm not as weak as you make me out to be, and take out my anger and rage and frustration over the unfairness of what the cards men are dealt with".
"Sticks and stones."
Mary Terry will tell you I am not easily offended.
I suggest you work on your anger management.
 
A gift of cheese would definitely fascinate me. There's a custom somewhere in Italy, maybe in Bologna, to celebrate Saint Andrew that involves men and women carrying around live basil plants to show that they are looking for love. So, if I were in Italy and a man gave me a basil plant and a chunk of parmesan cheese, I'd be smitten and cook pasta for him. :D
There you are:
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Where do we go from here? :cool:
 
Nope, it's definitely 2.

I connected and had a great time with two nerdy shy type girls glasses funny laughs which I enjoy. Once I sketch with a meetup. Another I watched the movie Ghost 1990 with laughter together again nerdy girl.
It sounds like some women like you. These women probably like you because you have something in common with them (You're both unique (nerdy/autistic) and socially limited (shy/social anxiety)), which makes it easier for them to relate to you.

It's those Prada Bee's that annoy me. Before you say it they are like locust everywhere around in NYC, Many of the nerdy girls have boyfriends and the snobby girls don't. I wonder why? So yes, it's damn hard to find the nerdy girls I click with.

Brooklyn is full of snobby women. Manhattan is much worse. Now that we are halfway through summer, I am going to try to find events in Queens. Ironically, I meet some nice women who reside there from various meetups and events.
NYC is known for being a wealthy city. I think it's harder for people with money and successful careers to relate to someone who is poor and unemployed. You live much different lifestyles so it's not surprising these women aren't interested. If you search for women who have more in common with you (odd, shy, poor, unemployed, or disabled), I think you'd have more success.
 

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