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How To Attract Women Without Saying Anything! šŸ˜Ž

Hi everyone,

I want to begin by saying that I fully respect people’s needs and desires for relationships, and I sincerely wish you all the best in your personal journeys.

As an autistic individual, I sometimes find it difficult to relate to certain strategies or generalizations about attracting women. I don’t mean to be pedantic, but I wonder if it might help to go into more detail about the kind of person you're hoping to connect with, as well as your own traits and values. That way, others in the community might be better able to support you — perhaps even by introducing you to someone they know who shares similar interests or outlooks.

I’d feel awkward if there were a magic potion, button or strategy that could spark instant attraction, because that would remove people’s autonomy. Real connection is more complex. Personally, I find beauty to be something that shines from within, and I hope more people — including women — are becoming increasingly aware of the importance of inner qualities over outward appearance.

Thanks for listening, and I hope this message is received in the spirit of kindness and constructive dialogue.

Warm regards,
Packet
 
Sorry for the double response — I hope this is within the forum rules. I felt it was important to add this as an autistic individual, and I’m trying to keep everything directly within the context of the original post, as I may be misunderstanding.

If someone is unable or unwilling to speak — for example, if they are non-verbal — there may still be other meaningful ways to communicate attraction or interest. If your question is specifically about how to attract someone using body language alone, could you please clarify that? It might help guide the conversation more constructively.

Perhaps something like dance could be a helpful and expressive medium in those cases.

Packet
 

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