How To Attract Women Without Saying Anything! 😎

[Jonn]

Nope, it's definitely 2.

Doubtful.
Though, if you stick to small community areas, people may gossip about you.
But only the stupid ones will embrace the bad-mouthing without finding out who you are themselves.

But consider:
If you are seen in public trashing, err, trash cans and the like, be prepared to be avoided, obviously.

I connected and had a great time with two nerdy shy type girls glasses funny laughs which I enjoy. Once I sketch with a meetup. Another I watched the movie Ghost 1990 with laughter together again nerdy girl.

It's those Prada Bee's that annoy me. Before you say it they are like locust everywhere around in NYC, Many of the nerdy girls have boyfriends and the snobby girls don't. I wonder why? So yes, it's damn hard to find the nerdy girls I click with.

Brooklyn is full of snobby women. Manhattan is much worse. Now that we are halfway through summer, I am going to try to find events in Queens. Ironically, I meet some nice women who reside there from various meetups and events.

Well, it is good you are still looking.

 

[Tony Ramirez]

As I said I connect with the nerdy shy type, weird nerdy girl's problem is many have boyfriends or have beta orbiters all over them.

 

[Tired]

For the the thread "How To Attract Women Without Saying Anything!" you all sure talk a lot!

 

[Steelbookcollector217]

IMO you're more correct than wrong, but you frequently phase it in such a polarized way that what you say taken as a whole is incorrect anyway.

An exercise for you (seriously):

Split people (assume all "single"): into 3 groups: young adult; adult interested in a family and children; past child bearing age

Note that it's not a "clean" partitioning: of all humans - think of it as selection into some very large categories, with all exceptions and "corner cases" excluded to keep it short and simple.

My assertion is that mating dynamics change significantly across those groups (which are more-or-less clusters based on physical, mental, and emotional maturity.

So the exercise:
List (for yourself) the interaction and relationship dynamics for all 6 (which have been simplified into 3 pairs).

You "win" if you get 6 distinct answers as three pairs, with simple "in-pair" and "between-pairs" patterns

If you want to discuss it please use DM.

the expectations of men, the more it fills me with anger and resentment that i was born male, it pisses me off.

I remember one guy called out another guy who was ranting on how he feels its very unfair being a man, he called him out on it by saying:

"Boo hoo. We also don't have to go through child birth and we're strong as hell. Testosterone gives us ambition + mental and physical strength that MANY (not all) women are lacking. Being a man has many benefits and with great power comes great responsibility. Stop crying about it and get your act together"

Gosh, that statement pissed me off so much, it made me feel like wanting to hurt him so badly, like wanting to make him squeal like a puppy as i break his neck.

Seriously, ever since puberty i have always had a lifelong anger and rage and resentment towards men being expected to make the first move all the time, i know i will hate it until the day i die.

 

[Outdated]

I remember one guy called out another guy who was ranting on how he feels its very unfair being a man, he called him out on it by saying:

A response in Aussie vernacular:

"Not much of a man then are you? Toughen up princess!"

 

[Crossbreed]

For the the thread "How To Attract Women Without Saying Anything!" you all sure talk a lot!

It would be a pretty short thread, otherwise...

 

[Steelbookcollector217]

A response in Aussie vernacular:

"Not much of a man then are you? Toughen up princess!"

still that phrase he said to me really pissed me off, but yeah, i like to think that women are the only gender that are owed a relationship, entitled to one, but men are not.

 

[Aspychata]

I am drawn towards autistic friends, bosses. Yes, this really happens. I lost touch with a friend, but l was really impressed with his height, and many other attributes, (like his voice) . I would compliment him, but he told me l was feeding him crap.

 

[Jonn]

For the the thread "How To Attract Women Without Saying Anything!" you all sure talk a lot!

Well, yeah.
We are Aspies after all.

That was the title of the video on YouTube, and I usually just copy and paste it to the thread title.
I will be changing that policy in the future, if I remember to do so, since it can be very limiting in discussions.

 

[Jonn]

the expectations of men, the more it fills me with anger and resentment that i was born male, it pisses me off.

Both genders have their own challenges.
Next time, choose the opposite sex in your next reincarnation, and you will find out.

I remember one guy called out another guy who was ranting on how he feels its very unfair being a man, he called him out on it by saying:

"Boo hoo. We also don't have to go through child birth and we're strong as hell. Testosterone gives us ambition + mental and physical strength that MANY (not all) women are lacking. Being a man has many benefits and with great power comes great responsibility. Stop crying about it and get your act together"

I am assuming you were conversing with Spiderman.

All things considered, and using a wider context, I think women have/had a more difficult time.
Consider human history, and in some less enlightened cultures today, such as in Afghanistan.
But your context involves recent times, and presumably involves more westernised societies.

It is too early in the day to open this can of worms, atm, so I will leave it at that.

Gosh, that statement pissed me off so much, it made me feel like wanting to hurt him so badly, like wanting to make him squeal like a puppy as i break his neck.

Shades of 'Deliverance'

That is probably an unwise thing to do.
You may end up being someone's "girlfriend" in the penitentiary.
I doubt this is the direction you would want to go.

Seriously, ever since puberty i have always had a lifelong anger and rage and resentment towards men being expected to make the first move all the time, i know i will hate it until the day i die.

Yes, autistic males are particularly disadvantaged by this social custom, but:

1. Not all women are like that. I am speaking from personal experience here.
2. Educating yourself in seeing the unspoken body language of women, in addition to observing/hearing verbal clues, is possible. Once again, I am speaking from personal experience.

 

[Jonn]

It would be a pretty short thread, otherwise...

I should have changed the title.
Lesson learnt.

 

[Jonn]

I am drawn towards autistic friends, bosses. Yes, this really happens. I lost touch with a friend, but l was really impressed with his height, and many other attributes, (like his voice) . I would compliment him, but he told me l was feeding him crap.

Agreed.
It isn't clear-cut.

 

[Steelbookcollector217]

Both genders have their own challenges.
Next time, choose the opposite sex in your next reincarnation, and you will find out.


I am assuming you were conversing with Spiderman.

All things considered, and using a wider context, I think women have/had a more difficult time.
Consider human history, and in some less enlightened cultures today, such as in Afghanistan.
But your context involves recent times, and presumably involves more westernised societies.

It is too early in the day to open this can of worms, atm, so I will leave it at that.


Shades of 'Deliverance'

That is probably an unwise thing to do.
You may end up being someone's "girlfriend" in the penitentiary.
I doubt this is the direction you would want to go.


Yes, autistic males are particularly disadvantaged by this social custom, but:

1. Not all women are like that. I am speaking from personal experience here.
2. Educating yourself in seeing the unspoken body language of women, in addition to observing/hearing verbal clues, is possible. Once again, I am speaking from personal experience.

still, nevertheless, i think its human nature, instinct, to want to stand up for yourself if you feel someone has wronged you or bullied you, made fun of you, even if it means suffering legal consequences, i figure the reason we have laws is to suppress people from acting on their instincts whether they are wrong or good.

Still, my mindset of wanting to beat that guy up for saying that to me, is to basically say to him "i'm not as weak as you make me out to be, and take out my anger and rage and frustration over the unfairness of what the cards men are dealt with".

 

[Mary Terry]

the expectations of men, the more it fills me with anger and resentment that i was born male, it pisses me off.

I remember one guy called out another guy who was ranting on how he feels its very unfair being a man, he called him out on it by saying:

"Boo hoo. We also don't have to go through child birth and we're strong as hell. Testosterone gives us ambition + mental and physical strength that MANY (not all) women are lacking. Being a man has many benefits and with great power comes great responsibility. Stop crying about it and get your act together"

Gosh, that statement pissed me off so much, it made me feel like wanting to hurt him so badly, like wanting to make him squeal like a puppy as i break his neck.

Seriously, ever since puberty i have always had a lifelong anger and rage and resentment towards men being expected to make the first move all the time, i know i will hate it until the day i die.

You'd benefit from therapy about your obsession. Please seek professional help.

 

[honeytoast]

/End of thread.

 

[Zain]

I’m talking about men finding their worth based on who they are and not based on some ideal idea. I’m talking about accepting and even liking what you see in the mirror.



The way you describe women does not leave much room for variation or diversity. Perhaps, you think there is none.

What does liking what I see in the mirror have to do with how others view me?

What variation and diversity are you talking about? We are all humans so we are the same. We have the same desires (unless you admit that those who stray from normal desires are unhealthy, which a lot of people are nowadays, look at mental health rates). Why do you never see women say they want a shorter poor guy? Especially on social media, where they would be using their public image.

 

[Zain]

yup, starting or igniting, building the attraction i'm sure will always be on the mans shoulders, to sum it up, a woman doesn't need to know how to attract a man, its only men that need to know how to attract a woman.

Women want the same men, so they do need to bring something special or unique to the table to outshine other women.

 

[Zain]

"Boo hoo. We also don't have to go through child birth and we're strong as hell. Testosterone gives us ambition + mental and physical strength that MANY (not all) women are lacking. Being a man has many benefits and with great power comes great responsibility. Stop crying about it and get your act together"

I've noticed that the average person doesn't understand that the top 20% of men are in completely different realities than the bottom 80%. They don't realise that that's who they're talking about when they yap on about the positives of being a guy. So bizarre to me.

 

[Rodafina]

What does liking what I see in the mirror have to do with how others view me?

Confidence, my friend. Confidence is something that you feel, but others can see.

What variation and diversity are you talking about? We are all humans so we are the same.

I think you might benefit from widening the scope of people that you interact with. Live in the wide world a little longer, and you will continue to learn that we are most certainly not the same.