I am asking because lately I been getting bad advice mainly regarding relationships and how it's my fault I am not in one.
You still just dont get it, do you?
You refuse to accept that you might be the cause. You refuse to accept that others ARENT absolutely always the cause.
You're outright hostile towards the people you meet IRL... when you talk about them, it's always "oh the couples are FLAUNTING it" or "oh the couples are SHOVING IT IN MY FACE" which is a giant load of nonsense, and incredibly illogical. What a ridiculous idea, but it's all you'll allow, huh? Or sometimes you just talk about how you outright hate them.
You get advice all the time here. Solid advice. Often coming from people who, you know, actually have had or currently have relationships. You ignore it, no matter what it may be and no matter what direction it's from... unless it's exactly the thing you WANT to hear (that's not how advice works).
Your attitude is outright toxic, which you display constantly. Even here, in this topic, you're doing that a bit. I dont think I've ever seen a single topic from you where you ARENT being at least a little toxic.
EVERYTHING about your attitude and behavior is *exactly* what is going to turn off pretty much anyone you meet. I've said it before, and I'll say it for about the billionth time: People, particularly NTs, can spot that sort of thing from a mile away. It clings to you, and is impossible for most to miss. Some people CAN put up with that sort of thing for a limited time, but... always, that will break after not too long.
All of these negatives COULD be avoided if you accepted that yes, you cause your own problem, and then actually sat the heck down and faced the bloody problem instead of just talking about how everyone sucks and "woe is me, the world hates me" which is also a bucket of nonsense.
All of this has been explained to you. Many, many times. As always, you dont listen. No... you REFUSE to listen.
So much toxicity, so much hate, so much of this self-centered belief that it's ALWAYS a them VS you situation and THEY must be at fault, and it's so, so obvious...
And you wonder why nobody is interested in you? Seriously?
Until you face up to your problems and at least TRY to make some changes like a freaking adult... you will not get what you want. I promise you that.
Oh, and by the way, yes, I'm autistic. Fully diagnosed by doctors years ago.
And yes, I'm aware I'm being really harsh here. Just sugarcoating things DEFINITELY wont help in this case. Besides, if anyone's gonna go the harsh route here, it may as well be me...
Good grief. I really am a stubborn little snot, aint I? I know you arent going to take any of this to heart, yet here I am, trying anyway... But only this one post this time.