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Has my “time” come so to say?

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Markness

Markness

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There’s a worker at Dutch Bros. who I have chatted with when I’ve seen her working or on her break for the last few months. She told me recently that she’s on the Autism spectrum and she’s always smiling when she see’s me. This is making me wonder if my “time has come” so to say? Is this a golden opportunity to have another girlfriend finally come into my life?
 
I wish you the best of luck @Markness. I wish I can say my social life was good but it took a polar opposite to the crapper were only married couples and single men are my friends. However two married men used me. Single women once again gave me the shaft and one recently hurt me bad by pretending to care for me but never actually wanting to hang or even sit next or near me. Friends hang with friends regardless of gender. Anyway read my post history I am not trauma dumping I am tired. Good luck Mark. I am rooting for you.
 
Sometimes the unexpected comes at our darkest hour. The days cannot be counted. The circumstances unknown. Opportunity knocks, and few hear. Deaf to the door they leave shut.

Hear the knock. Heed the call of opportunity. Open the door and seek your answers.
 
Markness said:
There’s a worker at Dutch Bros. who I have chatted with when I’ve seen her working or on her break for the last few months. She told me recently that she’s on the Autism spectrum and she’s always smiling when she see’s me. This is making me wonder if my “time has come” so to say? Is this a golden opportunity to have another girlfriend finally come into my life?
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I hope so!! We'll all cross our fingers for you. :)
 
Ask her out, don't hesitate, life is short and we regret the things we don't do more than the things we do.

Good luck!
 
Eren said:
Ask her out, don't hesitate, life is short and we regret the things we don't do more than the things we do.

Good luck!
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Do it. Just be careful and cautious I mean it there are a like sheeps in wolves clothing especially the nice ones be careful of the nice ones they could be very deceiving.
 
Casually ask her where she lives, not the address but just the town or city. After she answers, say in a chilled tone "well come to [your city/town], kind of like a date." If she lives in the same town or city as you then you can just say the name of your street.
That's how my husband asked me on a date.
 
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@Markness


The dramatic tone of the title and wording of the first post
led several people to conclude that the topic was health related,
it appears. Life and Death. Especially Death. Yours.

You time having come....so to speak.

Different wording might have prevented this.

*I wonder if I have a chance with this girl?*
 
I knew what the title meant. I felt a surge of happiness when I saw it before even reading his OP. I'd love him to have a girlfriend.
 
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