TempeFan
Well-Known Member
Yes, parents do need to be educated and will be most important in helping him with guidance not punishment. Rushing to out him to the world before parents get the chance to help him, not helpful.
They can do what you suggested without bad government intervention:
If Dad is as resistant as you say, then pushing him to accept what you are 100% sure of will have the opposite effect. Best to let him think he is helping because different tactics might be more effective than by pressuring dad into admitting what he won't yet. It will be less stressful to your daughter to have hubby on their side, not rifted apart by denial. Find out what to try first. Get dad on board with trying something that might work. Rushing him by involving government goons is counterproductive. Opens up a whole new can of worms. Help child first.
They can do what you suggested without bad government intervention:
his parents would be a bit more patient and try different tactics that they might be taught instead of punishing him
If Dad is as resistant as you say, then pushing him to accept what you are 100% sure of will have the opposite effect. Best to let him think he is helping because different tactics might be more effective than by pressuring dad into admitting what he won't yet. It will be less stressful to your daughter to have hubby on their side, not rifted apart by denial. Find out what to try first. Get dad on board with trying something that might work. Rushing him by involving government goons is counterproductive. Opens up a whole new can of worms. Help child first.