My daughter that I'm 98% certain is on the spectrum has a 5 year old whom I'm 100% certain is on the spectrum. When I told her of my diagnosis, she was accepting of it and also somewhat accepting of it with her son. But her husband would not even allow her to talk about the possibility so she's been fairly quiet about it and appears to have just planned to try to deal with it herself with no outside help.
She called today, very upset and not knowing what to do about her son acting up in class and being put in time out for sudden loud outbursts in class and being disruptive and today the teacher could hardly even get his attention. He usually does fairly well but this week he hasn't. He's even upset not getting the 'good behavior paw prints' and tells his mom he doesn't want to talk about it ever. Sounds like his mom and dad may have yelled at him over it - which I told her he should not be scolded, but guided. And I told her this is why I think she needs to talk to either a professional or at least another mom who might have advice on how to handle it and teach him control, etc and she did not need to handle this alone. I told her I couldn't really give advice because I wasn't aware during problem times WHY so just kind of had an 'oh well' attitude. I don't know what to tell her. And I hate to see her struggling alone with this. And I don't want my grandson to go through life struggling so hard - he's special to me cause he's always reminded me of myself and I don't know how to make it easier for both of them.
She called today, very upset and not knowing what to do about her son acting up in class and being put in time out for sudden loud outbursts in class and being disruptive and today the teacher could hardly even get his attention. He usually does fairly well but this week he hasn't. He's even upset not getting the 'good behavior paw prints' and tells his mom he doesn't want to talk about it ever. Sounds like his mom and dad may have yelled at him over it - which I told her he should not be scolded, but guided. And I told her this is why I think she needs to talk to either a professional or at least another mom who might have advice on how to handle it and teach him control, etc and she did not need to handle this alone. I told her I couldn't really give advice because I wasn't aware during problem times WHY so just kind of had an 'oh well' attitude. I don't know what to tell her. And I hate to see her struggling alone with this. And I don't want my grandson to go through life struggling so hard - he's special to me cause he's always reminded me of myself and I don't know how to make it easier for both of them.