Likemathsbutnotnumbers..
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This is probably going to be a rant, because I know I just have to sort this but it's giving me so much stress that I have to spew it all onto the internet.
Over a month ago, a person who was originally going to be one of my next housemates invited me to her ifta dinner party, and it was really good. But at the end I'd been getting more awkward so of course ended up in one of those ridiculous You can take leftovers if you want, feel free to take leftovers(it was said so much I felt it was obligatory) situations at the end. So I ended up with a random bowl of leftover rice. I took it back, and since it wasn't even the rice I expected(plain instead of vegetable) I inevitably didn't eat it. You're not meant to reheat it much anyway so it was pretty useless. But then the friend basically didn't ask for it back while I felt bad over wasting it, then I moved house and assumed I'd be able to hand it to her when she moved into our house. Then I got really stressed while living with my dad because he is a hoarder, there was a tonne of stuff me and my brother ended up doing which basically made the house habitable, so once I left the bowl was still somewhere or other. Some of my own crockery went missing because other housemates took it as well. Anyway weeks after I moved house, the girl left our contract all of a sudden, and weeks after that I was back in my new house and she started asking for it back. Now it's just this thing constantly hanging over my head that I know I should have sorted out earlier but I just feel paralysed when I think of it. It's like one of those chores you leave too long, except I'm fine with them at the moment, but because I also feel guilty as a result it's really not happened. I only get reminders to bring back the bowl while I'm away somewhere anyway, and she left it until the month in which I've had a piano summer school, sorted out all the bills for the house, visited family friends and soon I'm going to see mum in Cyprus. By this point I'm either buying her a new bowl or getting it back from the old house where it seems to be(I couldn't tell at first because the only person I knew stayed gave me the unhelpful response of I don't have a clue, sorry), and then I hope never to hear from her again.
Maybe I'll leave facebook at some point cause this is so stressful and it's really starting to be a massive source of anxiety. And it's making me feel so guilty. I know in most peoples' eyes this is something I owe, but mostly I shouldn't have accepted that bowl of rice anyway. Who leaves a dinner party carrying a bowl of brown rice...
Over a month ago, a person who was originally going to be one of my next housemates invited me to her ifta dinner party, and it was really good. But at the end I'd been getting more awkward so of course ended up in one of those ridiculous You can take leftovers if you want, feel free to take leftovers(it was said so much I felt it was obligatory) situations at the end. So I ended up with a random bowl of leftover rice. I took it back, and since it wasn't even the rice I expected(plain instead of vegetable) I inevitably didn't eat it. You're not meant to reheat it much anyway so it was pretty useless. But then the friend basically didn't ask for it back while I felt bad over wasting it, then I moved house and assumed I'd be able to hand it to her when she moved into our house. Then I got really stressed while living with my dad because he is a hoarder, there was a tonne of stuff me and my brother ended up doing which basically made the house habitable, so once I left the bowl was still somewhere or other. Some of my own crockery went missing because other housemates took it as well. Anyway weeks after I moved house, the girl left our contract all of a sudden, and weeks after that I was back in my new house and she started asking for it back. Now it's just this thing constantly hanging over my head that I know I should have sorted out earlier but I just feel paralysed when I think of it. It's like one of those chores you leave too long, except I'm fine with them at the moment, but because I also feel guilty as a result it's really not happened. I only get reminders to bring back the bowl while I'm away somewhere anyway, and she left it until the month in which I've had a piano summer school, sorted out all the bills for the house, visited family friends and soon I'm going to see mum in Cyprus. By this point I'm either buying her a new bowl or getting it back from the old house where it seems to be(I couldn't tell at first because the only person I knew stayed gave me the unhelpful response of I don't have a clue, sorry), and then I hope never to hear from her again.
Maybe I'll leave facebook at some point cause this is so stressful and it's really starting to be a massive source of anxiety. And it's making me feel so guilty. I know in most peoples' eyes this is something I owe, but mostly I shouldn't have accepted that bowl of rice anyway. Who leaves a dinner party carrying a bowl of brown rice...