Friends on the Spectrum neurotypical or neurodiverse

[Tony Ramirez]

I find that neurotypical females are better friends. However I fine neurodivergent men are better friends.

What I am saying that I have a really good close female friend who is neurotypical meaning that she doesn't have autism which I find is better. In the past female women whose claim they have autism i find have been the worst friends ever and I do not connect to them yes at first I find we have many things in common we connect with many hobbies and similar interests. But they end up not want to do anything with me even once and then when things get hard with me they just end up breadcrumb blocking me and really they end up just forming their own friend group without me and ostracizing me.

However with normal women when you call neurotypical women I find they are more understanding I connected them better and I see no one hang out with it more and understand them however with neurotypical men I do not want to hang out there more they are very loud on key and I don't want to be around them.

However with men on the Spectrum with a few I met at the center I go to I connected them right away I enjoy their company and I want to hang out with them.

See the problem.

 

[Neonatal RRT]

I find that neurotypical females are better friends. However I fine neurodivergent men are better friends.

What I am saying that I have a really good close female friend who is neurotypical meaning that she doesn't have autism which I find is better. In the past female women whose claim they have autism i find have been the worst friends ever and I do not connect to them yes at first I find we have many things in common we connect with many hobbies and similar interests. But they end up not want to do anything with me even once and then when things get hard with me they just end up breadcrumb blocking me and really they end up just forming their own friend group without me and ostracizing me.

However with normal women when you call neurotypical women I find they are more understanding I connected them better and I see no one hang out with it more and understand them however with neurotypical men I do not want to hang out there more they are very loud on key and I don't want to be around them.

However with men on the Spectrum with a few I met at the center I go to I connected them right away I enjoy their company and I want to hang out with them.

See the problem.

That's been my experience, as well.

As far as male-female life partners and friends go, sometimes it is best to be with someone who complements you... fills in the gaps... the two of you making one good person.

Male-male friendships are often based upon common interests.

I watched a stand-up comic years ago discussing this topic. Two men spend 4hrs out on a boat fishing, can say nothing to each other and have a great time. Their wives ask them later, "What did you talk about?" The men say, "Nothing" (which is true) and the wives think the men are hiding something from them. Two women spend 4hrs at a restaurant, drinking coffee, eating, and talking. The husbands ask the women, "What did you do?" The women say, "Nothing" (which is true) and the husbands think the women are hiding something from them.

 

[Alexej]

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See the problem.

What is the problem here Tony?
It seems you are making some good observations of your life.

 

[Ronald Zeeman]

Only meet on one women on spectrum my sister. Yes for friends like autistic men.

 

[Chingching]

I don't care the gender of my friends - I'm friends with all kinds of good people; race, sexuality, age, neurology, gender, does it matter?

 

[Jumpinbare]

My late wife was neurotypical. Most of my longterm male friends have been ND.

So it tracks.

 

[MROSS]

The topic, 'Friends on the Spectrum - Neurotypical or Neurodiverse' is a much-needed discusison-thread.

 

[lunarious]

Right. People need something from behind. But they are not getting that. And when i comment my post gets deleted.

Edit: I need not degrade myself over PG-13, you know how dirty you are when you give or take from behind. ... But in Hell i might need to tell you exactly what i think you are.