savi83
Well-Known Member
Hi everybody,
I recently had an incident at work where a visitor had become angry with me. I can't really go into specifics due to the nature of my work.
To them they believed that they were too important to follow the rules and wanted me to cut corners which I didn't. This made them really angry to the point that they were verbally abusive and threatening.
I tried to reason with the visitor to get him to understand but he twisted it in his mind that he was more important that our rules and processes.
At one point he even feigned a punch at me.
Throughout the incident I remained calm and tried to rationalise with him. I did not react to the aggressive cues but on reflecting back some of the words and actions were very aggressive and the situation could have easily become physical.
I do not know why I did not react to his aggression. I should have called the police but I didn't and I don't know where he developed this belief that he was so important.
Has anyone else had situations like this?
I recently had an incident at work where a visitor had become angry with me. I can't really go into specifics due to the nature of my work.
To them they believed that they were too important to follow the rules and wanted me to cut corners which I didn't. This made them really angry to the point that they were verbally abusive and threatening.
I tried to reason with the visitor to get him to understand but he twisted it in his mind that he was more important that our rules and processes.
At one point he even feigned a punch at me.
Throughout the incident I remained calm and tried to rationalise with him. I did not react to the aggressive cues but on reflecting back some of the words and actions were very aggressive and the situation could have easily become physical.
I do not know why I did not react to his aggression. I should have called the police but I didn't and I don't know where he developed this belief that he was so important.
Has anyone else had situations like this?