I never said I don’t want your help. Don’t put words in my mouth.Accepting people for who they are is one thing. Making them stand still and not grow is another. But you have made it clear you do not want my help. I have offered you ways to grow. I don't know why you don't want to grow since this state of you does not seem to make you happy. But I wish you the best of luck and I hope you become happy regardless.