Could he have Asperger syndrome?

[Kate992]

Hello All,

Lately on a dating webstite I met a guy who is very elegant, eloquent, witty and intelligent. We went on a date and the problem was he was never looking at me. We were sitting next to each other and he was always looking straight. It made me uneasy but he said he's shy. After the date I went to different city and for a week we were only exchanging emails. Again our converstations were very intellectual and interesting. However, out of nowhere today he started to ask me about sexual stuff. It seemed very much out of context and I would never expect something like that from person like him (after these 2 weeks). He apologised when I told him I am offended. He was and is still claiming he is looking for something serious and long term, he wants to have a family etc. On a date he was shy, reserved and seemed slightly... robotic? Now I am not sure if he's just a creep or could be on autism spectrum?

 

[GadAbout]

could be a creep, could be on the spectrum, could be both, could be neither

too little information to answer the question

 

[tducey]

Really hard to say, seems like a bit to early though to ask about sex.

 

[Tom]

Another escapee from that robot factory.

 

[Wolfnox]

He sounds desperate by your wording.

 

[Fridgemagnetman]

Do you like him?

Analysing him and defining him from day one isn't going to go well.