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Could he have Asperger syndrome?

Discussion in 'General Autism Discussion' started by Kate992, Aug 18, 2019.

  1. Kate992

    Kate992 Active Member

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    Hello All,

    Lately on a dating webstite I met a guy who is very elegant, eloquent, witty and intelligent. We went on a date and the problem was he was never looking at me. We were sitting next to each other and he was always looking straight. It made me uneasy but he said he's shy. After the date I went to different city and for a week we were only exchanging emails. Again our converstations were very intellectual and interesting. However, out of nowhere today he started to ask me about sexual stuff. It seemed very much out of context and I would never expect something like that from person like him (after these 2 weeks). He apologised when I told him I am offended. He was and is still claiming he is looking for something serious and long term, he wants to have a family etc. On a date he was shy, reserved and seemed slightly... robotic? Now I am not sure if he's just a creep or could be on autism spectrum?
     
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  2. GadAbout

    GadAbout Well-Known Member

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    could be a creep, could be on the spectrum, could be both, could be neither

    too little information to answer the question
     
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  3. tducey

    tducey Well-Known Member It's My Birthday!

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    Really hard to say, seems like a bit to early though to ask about sex.
     
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    Tom Well-Known Member V.I.P Member

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    Another escapee from that robot factory.
     
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  5. Wolf Prince

    Wolf Prince My future job title.

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    He sounds desperate by your wording.
     
  6. Fridgemagnetman

    Fridgemagnetman I only have one V.I.P Member

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    Do you like him?

    Analysing him and defining him from day one isn't going to go well.
     
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