I've always wondered if I'm pushing myself too hard, if I'm even capable of achieving all the things I want to achieve. Many people have told me that I have accomplished a lot and that I should take it easy and enjoy what I have instead of aiming for impossible. But the problem is it seems that "impossible" is not in my vocabulary. And now I'm thinking...am I delusional? Considering my slow processing, that I seem to be successful only when I can hyperfocus on one project at a time and often unable to see a bigger picture, it's hard to believe I can sustain a busy life style. Imagine that your day (maybe you don't even have to imagine it, maybe you're living it) is filled from top to bottom, between kids, house, spouse, creative process, all kinds of practices, meetings, you're trying to figure out how to get a business off the ground, and all this on the spectrum... insane... or daring...or stupid? For me it looks like a very exciting adventure but it makes my head spin. It's like running a heavy program on an old computer... but then again... I'm not a computer and my brain has gotten tons of undiscovered potentials... but what if I will never figure out how to make it work... what if 20 years from now I'll be still living in my deteriorating house inside the crumbling frame of the rotten society wondering, what's the hell, why couldn't I choose a proper Asperger's life, a proper human life.
My life coach keeps saying "why do angels fly? Because they take themselves lightly." it is true. when I stop asking questions and have fun with what I do, things don't seem to be that bad even if I'm still confused.... one more thing my coach is almost completely deaf on both ears, he says that he's found strength in his disability and that's what I should do....
so what do you think? Would you rather adjust and avoid things that are too challenging and hard to achieve or would you try to beat the odds?
My life coach keeps saying "why do angels fly? Because they take themselves lightly." it is true. when I stop asking questions and have fun with what I do, things don't seem to be that bad even if I'm still confused.... one more thing my coach is almost completely deaf on both ears, he says that he's found strength in his disability and that's what I should do....
so what do you think? Would you rather adjust and avoid things that are too challenging and hard to achieve or would you try to beat the odds?