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Autistic women - men and sex

Kalinychta

Kalinychta

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What sort of men, male characteristics, traits, etc. do you like? I’ve always been attracted to men who are funny. What are you attracted to in a man?
 
Cuteness. No one description describes cuteness, it's just a feeling I get when I see a man I feel looks cute, as in facial features. When I want to treat a man like a fluffy cute animal then that's what I like, appearance-wise anyway.
Also their personality comes into it too. I like an introvert-type, who has respect for himself and others, and isn't bigheaded or "Jack the lad" type.

My husband is exactly the man.
 
Misty Avich said:
Cuteness. No one description describes cuteness, it's just a feeling I get when I see a man I feel looks cute, as in facial features. When I want to treat a man like a fluffy cute animal then that's what I like, appearance-wise anyway.
Also their personality comes into it too. I like an introvert-type, who has respect for himself and others, and isn't bigheaded or "Jack the lad" type.

My husband is exactly the man.
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Haha. That's funny. A woman I was dating told me that I was "so adorable," and of course, the macho-man in me felt offended. :)
 
Authenticity, grit, intelligence, a bit of a hustler, but these types can also fall on the dangerous side of life in all their attitudes in general. I guess l have dated a few bad boys but l gave that up. When you swim with sharks, you end up missing a leg, or an arm. I also enjoy a guy in touch with his feminine side.
 
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I am a bit like Aspychata, only minus the hustler. I like non-conformist type thinkers, highly intelligent, has depth, warmth, kindness. I like "nature nerd" guys, with a sense of fun and well developed sense of humor, also, who are a bit in touch with their feminine side, but who won't shy away from their masculinity either. My guy fits the bill beautifully.
 
I like men with a feminine side. I also like men with old-fashioned views or lifestyles.

I have always found myself feeling for older men. When I was little my parents said I used to run around naked whenever my dad had a male friend round, but never when my brother had his male friends round.

When I was a teenager I got crushes on men twice my age instead of the boys at my school. Now I'm married to a man twice my age.

When I was 14 I liked 34-year-old men, but now I'm 34 they are too young for me, instead I like men in their 60s. (Well, my husband).
Actually, I remember when I was 14 I had a bit of a crush on an elderly teacher but I didn't tell anyone because I knew they'd all make fun of me.
 
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