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Aspie or NT? Marriage Poll

What type of person would you be happier marrying?

  • An Aspie who understands your AS issues, but still struggles with his/her own.

  • An NT who accepts your AS issues, but can help you navigate through the "normal" world.

Results are only viewable after voting.
Suiseiseki said:
I know that, just gotta find people willing to go along with it
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Ah, The people are there, it's just secret. ; )

I am not one of the wife/husband sharing crowd though...... It would be more of a married thing, and it's just more of a wishful theory. Not really accepted by society, not ready to implement any plans. But did you hear the Wonder Woman thing on NPR the other day? it happens, even in the really OLD fashioned days ........
 
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I'd rather have an NT who accepts me for who I am, and who can help me with my daily struggles. I think it's good for an Aspie to have an NT close to him (whether this is a parent/partner/friend) who can serve as a "translator". I have a boyfriend like that. He helps me when I can't handle things and explains social situations to me. That's something another Aspie might not be able to do. But then again, it all depends on the person.
 
I don't think I'm really experienced enough to answer this question, even for myself. At the moment, I want no relationship. But, from the little experience I have, I don't think it will matter too much if the person is on the spectrum or not. When you have met one aspie, you have met one aspie. The same goes for NTs.

So, marriage- wise, I'd like someone who loves me and who is always honest with me.
 
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