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I've had this a lot in my life. People assuming I don't feel or care, just because they don't always see the signs they are looking for. Because I don't always express my feelings their way, I must be cold or indifferent. Not indifferent, just different. Observing rather than identifying. I know what you mean.
@Primrose ,
Have you looked into the areas of alexithymia and "Theory of Mind". Both of these might give you some more info related to this post.
Alexithymia has to do with being able to recognise and name emotions.
Theory of mind has to do with understanding how things are perceived by others.
(these are poor descriptions - but hopefully enough to give you a clue)
BTW the search function here is not bad in the Forum, and might give you some useful posts.
Does anyone else with ASD feel they have high empathy? I feel like I do.
The only issue is I don't express my thoughts or feelings well and I could come across to others as cold. So I think people around me don't know I have so much empathy.
There are 2 basic types of empathy,...cognitive and emotional. I would suggest, from the literature and from this forum, many folks with an ASD would actually score pretty high on the emotional empathy scale. I can be a blubbering idiot when it comes to reacting to someone else's emotional pain,...real or even watching a movie,...even some music. This comes from a different area of the brain than cognitive empathy.
Cognitive empathy, as others posted, above comes via the "theory of mind" aspect. Different part of the brain, frontal lobe and limbic system. This allows one to take the perspective of the other person. If you come off as non-reactive to microexpressions and body language, if you come off as having some difficulty understanding "what the big deal is" during a conversation, if you come off as somewhat cold, insensitive, or stoic,...you may be low in cognitive empathy.
Having said that, I have heard of a few, rare autistics that one would call "empaths",...extraordinarily sensitive,...almost to the point of appearing to have "psychic" abilities.
An excellent point.I don't find the field to be ethical (I don't know any mediums who are trained as therapists, but they ought to be, since people are coming to them with real issues that need real treatment).
Wow...powerful stuff.I was so overloaded with "other people's vibes" that I could barely function. It became difficult to not space out all the time. I'd forget to eat, lose track of time, and so on.
That is interesting.nterestingly, when I went into treatment for trauma, my sensitivity lessened.
I was invited by that medium/therapist I mentioned to join her healer training group. She said I had natural abilities. But like you I never felt magical and somehow this seemed to be necessary to fit into what those who came for healing wanted. It wasn't therapeutic enough to be formal, yet I wasn't new agey enough to give off the appropriate vibe. I didn't remain in the group for very long.I never felt "magical" and my clients wanted me to—thereby disempowering themselves and inappropriately hyper-powering me
I was invited by that medium/therapist I mentioned to join her healer training group. She said I had natural abilities. But like you I never felt magical and somehow this seemed to be necessary to fit into what those who came for healing wanted. It wasn't therapeutic enough to be formal, yet I wasn't new agey enough to give off the appropriate vibe. I didn't remain in the group for very long.
I would say that the healer empowers the recipient to heal themselves. To offer them an opportunity to realise or recognise something that puts them into a state where they literally shift into a version of themselves that reflects the way they wish to be.The "point" of a healer is to dispense wisdom to a recipient and unquestioning audience, not facilitate the process of one finding one's own wisdom.
l was curious about what strengths l have. So l tried a tab of remote viewing. It is possible to do. We truly aren't limited by electrical devices. This is a tab different then reading. l remember going and reading a story about a fallen police officer. l was sad. A number came to my mind. l couldn't find the number in the story. l went to another online source, and this was the freeway number he drove off of. So l think remote viewing is legit.
I would say that the healer empowers the recipient to heal themselves. To offer them an opportunity to realise or recognise something that puts them into a state where they literally shift into a version of themselves that reflects the way they wish to be.