Steelbookcollector217
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While this has never happend to me, i've never gotten thrown that label or been accused of this, i have unfortuneately, felt i have made people or women uncomfortable in social situations when socializing with them, but it never became a legal matter or legal issue, for example, there have been times in my life where people would at first welcome me in their presence in the beginning, they enjoyed my company when around me or when i'm with them, but then sometime later, i get the vibe or feeling from them that they are getting annoyed and bothered by my presence, the way i can tell is, they no longer smile when i'm with them or they have a frowned look on their face that gives the vibe, feeling, that i'm not welcome around them anymore, after that, i just well no longer try to be around them since i don't want to make the situation worse, but it still hurts because it makes me and i'm sure other people with autism or don't do well socially, it causes them to wonder or think "what did i do wrong to annoy or bother them?"
Here is what i'm getting at, the main topic of this discussion, at least 3 guys, men, i've spoken to who have autism, they told me that have been labeled a creepy stalker by women or people, or they have been accused of stalking, even though these guys, men, never meant any harm, never wanted to hurt anyone, and they never layed a finger on these women or people.
One of these guys, i feel sorry for him, he tells me he has high functioning autism, but it won't surprise me if its worse than that, its difficult for me to assess or judge what he did wrong socially since i wasn't there, didn't witness any part of it, but he told me back when he was in college, a girl filed a restraining order against him, and some of her guy friends did the same thing.
He got labeled a creepy stalker and lots of people at the college called him that, he ended up getting expelled as well.
I can't help but feel very sorry for him because of that traumatic experience, of course some people will say that his parents failed him in regards to social skills, its not just autism.
It won't surprise me if incidents like these in social situations are not unheard of for people with autism, especially guys, men, since reading and understanding social cues is the main struggle for people with autism, so that will make people very clumsy in social situations and cause them to rub people the wrong way and they are not aware of it.
But back to the main topic, are incidents like this not unheard of for guys, men, with autism? has this ever happend to any guys, men, you know of with autism?
Here is what i'm getting at, the main topic of this discussion, at least 3 guys, men, i've spoken to who have autism, they told me that have been labeled a creepy stalker by women or people, or they have been accused of stalking, even though these guys, men, never meant any harm, never wanted to hurt anyone, and they never layed a finger on these women or people.
One of these guys, i feel sorry for him, he tells me he has high functioning autism, but it won't surprise me if its worse than that, its difficult for me to assess or judge what he did wrong socially since i wasn't there, didn't witness any part of it, but he told me back when he was in college, a girl filed a restraining order against him, and some of her guy friends did the same thing.
He got labeled a creepy stalker and lots of people at the college called him that, he ended up getting expelled as well.
I can't help but feel very sorry for him because of that traumatic experience, of course some people will say that his parents failed him in regards to social skills, its not just autism.
It won't surprise me if incidents like these in social situations are not unheard of for people with autism, especially guys, men, since reading and understanding social cues is the main struggle for people with autism, so that will make people very clumsy in social situations and cause them to rub people the wrong way and they are not aware of it.
But back to the main topic, are incidents like this not unheard of for guys, men, with autism? has this ever happend to any guys, men, you know of with autism?