Sometimes, it's as if my life is happening to somebody else. I am deep inside this numb body, traveling through disconnected life events, struggling to apply a sense of clarity and reality to what is happening, even as it happens. I don't really have awareness of how to feel more connected to my body and my experiences. This sounds really scary, but it has been a reality since kindergarten.
My sense is that my groovy neurology has enough weakness, that overwhelm from trying to handle sensory hoopla and social energy drain causes varying states of shutdown as I go through life. School, socializing, having too many things to do, are overwhelming when you consider cognitive processing challenges, sensory sensitivities, executive functioning challenges, communication struggles, and delayed cognitive processing.
Whee! No wonder running more than one errand in a day, fielding two phone calls, and managing self care has us feeling fogged out, vague, and trying to be more present for our lives.
I always say that autism works it's best to try to solve it's own challenges. So while we may often feel disassociated and shutdown when life overwhelms, we find recovery and healing in our wonderful, compelling, dominant default state of autistic inner world.