LittleKnownBeat
No Gods or Kings, only Man - Andrew R
We're both Aspies.
Due to unacceptable behavior on his part :
* Annoying me about 'us' getting together as a couple. Constantly saying 'You don't know what's going to happen in the future'
* Sending me nude pictures of people and asking me my opinion.
* Not giving me space and or constantly messaging me
* Demanding that we be 'So open' with one another 'No secrets' should exist between us.
* If anything happens to me like within my day - he blames it on me. 'Well maybe it's just you?' Everything is 'just me', to him.
* Amongst other ridiculous behaviors that he considers to be 'within his nature and his right.
I told him "Listen, I dont want to talk to you anymore. Leave me alone!"
He hasn't though. As an aspie myself should I be even more specific about what I meant? A large part of me is angry that I have asked him something and he takes that as "I should bother her more". We are both sarcastic people but I have learned to hide my anger and sarcasm. Since male aspies can be more inclined to not reading cues well... should I just be specific and tell him the ins and outs of why he needs to leave me alone. I don't like surprises on social media, especially when its him under a different profile name. I'm utterly sick of this. Help please! I am overwhelmed deeply by what I feel is an attack against me and peace.
Due to unacceptable behavior on his part :
* Annoying me about 'us' getting together as a couple. Constantly saying 'You don't know what's going to happen in the future'
* Sending me nude pictures of people and asking me my opinion.
* Not giving me space and or constantly messaging me
* Demanding that we be 'So open' with one another 'No secrets' should exist between us.
* If anything happens to me like within my day - he blames it on me. 'Well maybe it's just you?' Everything is 'just me', to him.
* Amongst other ridiculous behaviors that he considers to be 'within his nature and his right.
I told him "Listen, I dont want to talk to you anymore. Leave me alone!"
He hasn't though. As an aspie myself should I be even more specific about what I meant? A large part of me is angry that I have asked him something and he takes that as "I should bother her more". We are both sarcastic people but I have learned to hide my anger and sarcasm. Since male aspies can be more inclined to not reading cues well... should I just be specific and tell him the ins and outs of why he needs to leave me alone. I don't like surprises on social media, especially when its him under a different profile name. I'm utterly sick of this. Help please! I am overwhelmed deeply by what I feel is an attack against me and peace.