I suspect there are some underlying things that made this person feel that it is okay to do these kind of things. It's not your job to figure that out. Hopefully he will.
If this was only the first, maybe 2nd occurrence, I might be like it might be worth it to try to steer him in that direction. 13 though and you were already direct?
It hurts me to read this, but at the same time it is a bit helpful because I'm glad I didn't end up going to this extreme myself.
It pains me to write all that in this post and the one before, but sometimes the truth can also be quite freeing too.
If this was only the first, maybe 2nd occurrence, I might be like it might be worth it to try to steer him in that direction. 13 though and you were already direct?
It hurts me to read this, but at the same time it is a bit helpful because I'm glad I didn't end up going to this extreme myself.
It pains me to write all that in this post and the one before, but sometimes the truth can also be quite freeing too.
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