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Zain

Zain

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  • Zain
    Is it necessary to have a presence on social media as a young person?
    I don't have an instagram or a snapchat.. I'm unsure of how much it hurts my chances of finding a gf. I think perhaps people view people without these things with suspicion or something similar.
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    FayetheAspie
    FayetheAspie
    @honeytoast Yeah, I don't use any of the five you listed either. I've read some things that were open to the general public on a couple of them before but I don't post anything and don't have an account I could tell you how to go to. A past job required something, Facebook I think, but I never used it.
    honeytoast
    honeytoast
    I think people are asking for a Snapchat or something equal to that, because it's a little less personal than a phone number. At least how I see it.
    Zain
    Zain
    @honeytoast It gives a conversation starter and updates people on your life without doing it 1-1. I think this is main thing here.
    Zain
    I just threw up in my brothers' car... smoking and drinking on an empty stomach results in a disaster -- WARNING.
    Zain
    I really wanted to kiss a girl at work today. I would have went for it if we were elsewhere. We kept looking each other up and down, smiling and looking at each others’ lips.
    T
    thejuice
    Time for a trip to the janitors closet 😂😂😂
    Zain
    I wonder if we will worship AI as "Gods", or that they'll be some sort of technocult.
    T
    thejuice
    That's an interesting thought! There is a religion shaped hole that has yet filled. Would make a good movie.
    Zain
    Zain
    I think it is inevitable. Consider how easily manipulated people are nowadays by the smartest schemers. We will truly be playthings at some point once AI surpasses pur smartest minds and reaches a certain point of intelligence.
    Zain
    My cat died. We think he was ran over. I don't understand why my family is sad. We live near a busy road. It was only a matter of time.
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    Rodafina
    Rodafina
    It’s important to learn that others will have valid experiences that are different from your own. It is not wrong for you to not feel sad. But neither is it wrong for your mother and sister to feel sad.

    Perhaps, you don’t really get why they are sad, but you get that they are sad. This is a chance to explore the concept of empathy.
    Zain
    Zain
    Ruining your internal state for an animal is wrong and silly. It’s also a waste of money and time spent which should have been spent on a loved one or soneone close.
    Rodafina
    Rodafina
    It takes a lot of energy away from living to spend too much time dwelling in judgment.

    But how you spend your thoughts and energy is up to you. I’m just offering my perspective, not at all attached to changing yours.

    ☮️
    Zain
    I ate a full pizza with mayonnaise sauce and now I just want to commit suicide. I want to die so bad, I feel like I’ve poisoned myself. Compare this with my previous post. Diet is everything.
    Zain
    Also I just had organic raw eggs mixed with organic raw kefir after not having it for 2 months and I feel so happy right now. I'm just so happy to be alive, almost to tears.
    Zain
    I have a lot of co-workers from Hong Kong. They're all rich and financially set for the rest of their lives. Yet only a couple have families and more than one child. I asked one lady if she has children. She responded by saying she has 3 dogs. I wanted to laugh in her face, but she is a sweet person. They're all well-educated and worked high-stress jobs for 12+ hours a day for many, many years.
    Zain
    Zain
    I was very disgusted at this level of brainwashing. How could such intelligent and rich (the elite) people have superiors pulling their strings determining how many children they could have? What were they working for? Even they could not diverge from societies pressure and government propaganda.
    Zain
    I plan to get drunk tomorrow during the Europa league final at a pub. I hate watching football, but a friend invited me. I'm curious as to what what happens in pubs during big games. I consider it as an act of "assimilating".
    FayetheAspie
    FayetheAspie
    I still think you're making a mistake with the whole getting drunk thing, but you've got to make your own choices. I just hope you come to your senses before you end up wrapping your car around a tree with yourself inside or running over a pedestrian or something.
    Zain
    Zain
    @FayetheAspie It's the culture I'm surrounded by. I'm tired of being left out. I cannot escape it for now. I need stories partaking so I can bond with others on some level.
    Zain
    I think girls are starting to be more warm/receptive to me. I need to learn how to become like that with them. It's hard since I'm a little jaded at their nature from how they've treated me in the past.
    Rodafina
    Rodafina
    It's tough when we've had so many bad past experiences. I think it's really good to notice when we are doing this.

    There's always room to think that things can be different. If we allow ourselves to change and grow, sometimes good things come of it. 🌈
    Zain
    Zain
    Change is weird. I don't feel in control of what I change into, but it is commonly said that we can.
    Zain
    To the high IQ dudes, did learning formal logic/symbolic logic improve your cognition in any way?
    TBRS1
    TBRS1
    Yes, but avoid using it in conversations or you will annoy people. The personal satisfaction of knowing what one knows, and what one does not know, is worth it, though.
    Zain
    Zain
    @TBRS1 I didn't plan to. I was just wondering if it was worth learning deeply.
    TBRS1
    TBRS1
    My recommendation is to learn a bit of "syllogistic logic" (adding two premise together to arrive at a conclusion), "rhetoric" (techniques that give words increased impact) and "logical fallacies" (inherently false arguments) as most useful in daily life.

    Symbolic logic is quite abstract and most useful if one is, say, trying to figure out string theory, or quantum fluctuations, or meta- subjects.
    Zain
    firls are so cujte
    yes im drunk
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    honeytoast
    honeytoast
    Just be careful. Getting drunk with your friend isn't inherently bad, but you can get yourself into major trouble if you aren't careful. Especially if you're going on a trip to a place you are not familiar with (Or are familiar with). You never know what can happen.
    Zain
    Zain
    @honeytoast This is my last effort. Desperate times, desperate measures. If I get in trouble, so be it. But if I fail after this, I’ll quit drinking and become a monk oe something. These
    drunken episodes are sort of like trials/experiments mainly.
    Thanks for your advice, I had lots of water and can function at work today. 👍
    Zain
    Zain
    @honeytoast But you are sort of meant to be trouble when drinking 😅. Not with the law though.
    Zain
    There is not a feeling like making a girl laugh genuinely, a beaming smile and wide eyes.
    Zain
    Unattractive men shouldn't be anti-capitalists. It is our only way to bypass female nature. Through 'fake' resources, we can override it and make ourselves acceptable via the safety, comfort and joy through luxury to women to mate with.
    Zain
    Drinking alone sucks. Don't do it. And tequila tastes absolutely awful.
    T
    thejuice
    Drinking alone is a slow suicide. Or a fast one if you're unlucky.
    Zain
    And some dude at work, good guy, asked if I'd ever been in a relationship. I had to say nope, never :D. He was surprised. I was surprised he was surprised, lol. It's good people assume that I've had past relationships. He understood I was waiting until marriage from context. Most people just wouldn't get waiting so I don't like the topic.
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    T
    thejuice
    @Zain Personally I think early 20s is our peak and all downhill from 25+. That's when wisdom, character and wealth accumulation become mitigating factors for physical decay. Men can often become a more attractive mate choice the older they get. Depending if you make good decisions in life and have the ability to navigate a complex society.
    T
    thejuice
    @Tony Ramirez you're tall and good looking, I reckon buying a smart shirt would transform you!
    Zain
    Zain
    @thejuice Love will definitely be diluted unless your both virgins. Obviously not gonna happen in our hypersexualised society unless your deep in religious circles. But that's all we want.
    Zain
    My friend said he regretted getting married at such a young age. He was being pestered by his wife on our night out. Makes me think.
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    T
    thejuice
    I hope they can work out unresolved issues for the daughter, how old is she?
    T
    thejuice
    Society does heavily pressure us to live by 'the script' but we truly are free to do what we want. Marry, not marry, have kid, no kids, rat race, no rat race
    Zain
    Zain
    @thejuice She's 1. To be honest, he could have done a lot better. He's a good-looking guy. Just quite short. I think he's 5'5 or 5'6.
    Zain
    Your looks are everything. They should mean everything to you. Keep yourself healthy and beautiful.
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    Zain
    Zain
    That's good. You will get drunk quicker 🤣.
    T
    thejuice
    I think it all depends on context. I am adept in some situations where you would have polite conversation (I.e not this place 😁) but not in others i.e a loud bar
    T
    thejuice
    I'll make sure to put you in recovery position 😜😜😜
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