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Recent content by Zain

  1. Zain

    (30M) I'm relatively ugly and I'd like some advice

    Definitely not over for you. I think work on your fashion. Honestly, a lot of people on those forums aren't malicious for no reason. Most are genuine, trying to help out, because of the increased standards for men nowadays. You probably would have better success with those surgeries. A lot...
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    One trend in my life that I have unfortunately grown all too accustomed to.

    Right. 🤔
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    Would a polaroid be a good idea for a "birthday" present for my nephew?

    Well I don't really know what to get for a 1 year old. It's really for all of them. They can take pictures of him whenever they want and think it's important to keep and store around the house, like at important milestones, etc. Figured it'd be more valuable than something material since...
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    One trend in my life that I have unfortunately grown all too accustomed to.

    What was wrong about what I said? Yeah, learn skills to become rich... if you lack height and a handsome face.
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    Would a polaroid be a good idea for a "birthday" present for my nephew?

    My nephew is turning one. I was thinking of getting a polaroid for them to take pictures of him as he begins to grow. I've always thought that these were more intimate and appealing than digital photos. No one really goes to get digital photos processed and printed anyway. Any thoughts?
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    (30M) I'm relatively ugly and I'd like some advice

    You do seem short. How tall are you?
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    One trend in my life that I have unfortunately grown all too accustomed to.

    You've really pedestalised women to a place they don't belong. Not sure why you have, considering your experiences. They aren't that special, and they aren't especially interested in you. It's simple, be tall, handsome or rich. If you don't have any, give up hope.
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    (30M) I'm relatively ugly and I'd like some advice

    That top doesn't look nice. I think your hair could be improved. Maybe try a different style? It's not over for you at all.
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    I wonder if an irrational level of self love/view of one's self is necessary for joy in this world.

    I wonder if an irrational level of self love/view of one's self is necessary for joy in this world.
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    Wish I began taking my life seriously at a younger age. The lack of faith in myself still...

    Wish I began taking my life seriously at a younger age. The lack of faith in myself still hinders me greatly.
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    My managers at work are so stupid. It upsets me and hurts my head to think of their decision...

    My managers at work are so stupid. It upsets me and hurts my head to think of their decision making.
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    Definitely. Most of it is not genetics based but most affected by the environment.

    Definitely. Most of it is not genetics based but most affected by the environment.
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    I think I will call this experiment off and start giving people monotone, expressionless...

    I think I will call this experiment off and start giving people monotone, expressionless responses and slowly start to move apart. I though this type of thing would be spiritually potent but it's exhausting and now boring.
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    One co-worker I talk a lot with called me a friend. I said we're not friends, we are...

    One co-worker I talk a lot with called me a friend. I said we're not friends, we are acquaintances. We don't hang out outside of work, although we do share a lot of personal stuff with each other over this period. But this is all to get through the day, for me at least. I want to solve my...
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    Put in a lot of effort over the past year to make friends and connections. I still feel I have...

    Put in a lot of effort over the past year to make friends and connections. I still feel I have nothing of substance. I have people I can play pool with, drink with, go badminton with, etc, but I feel nothing for the other party. One truth makes it impossible - that I am replaceable, and so...
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