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Zain

Zain

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  • Zain
    Also I just had organic raw eggs mixed with organic raw kefir after not having it for 2 months and I feel so happy right now. I'm just so happy to be alive, almost to tears.
    Zain
    I have a lot of co-workers from Hong Kong. They're all rich and financially set for the rest of their lives. Yet only a couple have families and more than one child. I asked one lady if she has children. She responded by saying she has 3 dogs. I wanted to laugh in her face, but she is a sweet person. They're all well-educated and worked high-stress jobs for 12+ hours a day for many, many years.
    Zain
    Zain
    I was very disgusted at this level of brainwashing. How could such intelligent and rich (the elite) people have superiors pulling their strings determining how many children they could have? What were they working for? Even they could not diverge from societies pressure and government propaganda.
    Zain
    I plan to get drunk tomorrow during the Europa league final at a pub. I hate watching football, but a friend invited me. I'm curious as to what what happens in pubs during big games. I consider it as an act of "assimilating".
    FayetheAspie
    FayetheAspie
    I still think you're making a mistake with the whole getting drunk thing, but you've got to make your own choices. I just hope you come to your senses before you end up wrapping your car around a tree with yourself inside or running over a pedestrian or something.
    Zain
    Zain
    @FayetheAspie It's the culture I'm surrounded by. I'm tired of being left out. I cannot escape it for now. I need stories partaking so I can bond with others on some level.
    Zain
    I think girls are starting to be more warm/receptive to me. I need to learn how to become like that with them. It's hard since I'm a little jaded at their nature from how they've treated me in the past.
    Rodafina
    Rodafina
    It's tough when we've had so many bad past experiences. I think it's really good to notice when we are doing this.

    There's always room to think that things can be different. If we allow ourselves to change and grow, sometimes good things come of it. 🌈
    Zain
    Zain
    Change is weird. I don't feel in control of what I change into, but it is commonly said that we can.
    Zain
    To the high IQ dudes, did learning formal logic/symbolic logic improve your cognition in any way?
    TBRS1
    TBRS1
    Yes, but avoid using it in conversations or you will annoy people. The personal satisfaction of knowing what one knows, and what one does not know, is worth it, though.
    Zain
    Zain
    @TBRS1 I didn't plan to. I was just wondering if it was worth learning deeply.
    TBRS1
    TBRS1
    My recommendation is to learn a bit of "syllogistic logic" (adding two premise together to arrive at a conclusion), "rhetoric" (techniques that give words increased impact) and "logical fallacies" (inherently false arguments) as most useful in daily life.

    Symbolic logic is quite abstract and most useful if one is, say, trying to figure out string theory, or quantum fluctuations, or meta- subjects.
    Zain
    firls are so cujte
    yes im drunk
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    honeytoast
    honeytoast
    Just be careful. Getting drunk with your friend isn't inherently bad, but you can get yourself into major trouble if you aren't careful. Especially if you're going on a trip to a place you are not familiar with (Or are familiar with). You never know what can happen.
    Zain
    Zain
    @honeytoast This is my last effort. Desperate times, desperate measures. If I get in trouble, so be it. But if I fail after this, I’ll quit drinking and become a monk oe something. These
    drunken episodes are sort of like trials/experiments mainly.
    Thanks for your advice, I had lots of water and can function at work today. 👍
    Zain
    Zain
    @honeytoast But you are sort of meant to be trouble when drinking 😅. Not with the law though.
    Zain
    There is not a feeling like making a girl laugh genuinely, a beaming smile and wide eyes.
    Zain
    Unattractive men shouldn't be anti-capitalists. It is our only way to bypass female nature. Through 'fake' resources, we can override it and make ourselves acceptable via the safety, comfort and joy through luxury to women to mate with.
    Zain
    Drinking alone sucks. Don't do it. And tequila tastes absolutely awful.
    T
    thejuice
    Drinking alone is a slow suicide. Or a fast one if you're unlucky.
    Zain
    And some dude at work, good guy, asked if I'd ever been in a relationship. I had to say nope, never :D. He was surprised. I was surprised he was surprised, lol. It's good people assume that I've had past relationships. He understood I was waiting until marriage from context. Most people just wouldn't get waiting so I don't like the topic.
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    T
    thejuice
    @Zain Personally I think early 20s is our peak and all downhill from 25+. That's when wisdom, character and wealth accumulation become mitigating factors for physical decay. Men can often become a more attractive mate choice the older they get. Depending if you make good decisions in life and have the ability to navigate a complex society.
    T
    thejuice
    @Tony Ramirez you're tall and good looking, I reckon buying a smart shirt would transform you!
    Zain
    Zain
    @thejuice Love will definitely be diluted unless your both virgins. Obviously not gonna happen in our hypersexualised society unless your deep in religious circles. But that's all we want.
    Zain
    My friend said he regretted getting married at such a young age. He was being pestered by his wife on our night out. Makes me think.
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    T
    thejuice
    I hope they can work out unresolved issues for the daughter, how old is she?
    T
    thejuice
    Society does heavily pressure us to live by 'the script' but we truly are free to do what we want. Marry, not marry, have kid, no kids, rat race, no rat race
    Zain
    Zain
    @thejuice She's 1. To be honest, he could have done a lot better. He's a good-looking guy. Just quite short. I think he's 5'5 or 5'6.
    Zain
    Your looks are everything. They should mean everything to you. Keep yourself healthy and beautiful.
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    Zain
    Zain
    That's good. You will get drunk quicker 🤣.
    T
    thejuice
    I think it all depends on context. I am adept in some situations where you would have polite conversation (I.e not this place 😁) but not in others i.e a loud bar
    T
    thejuice
    I'll make sure to put you in recovery position 😜😜😜
    Zain
    I just discovered life is very fun being drunk and very boring not being drunk.
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    Zain
    Zain
    I think our drunken state is how we would act naturally, I mean in nature, without outside unnatural influences that affect our behaviour.
    Rodafina
    Rodafina
    Living permanently in a drunken state would be very poor for survival. Humans probably would not have lasted long if that was our natural state.

    It sounds like you had a profound experience in feeling uninhibited by that which paralyzes you. It is understandable that you enjoyed this feeling so much.
    Zain
    Zain
    @Rodafina I'm talking of a certain point you get when drinking where you're fully aware of normal things yet you are also unbothered by what inhibits you usually when you're not, like you said. My mistake for not being clearer.
    Zain
    I wish I was a little bit taller, I wish I was a baller
    I wish I had a girl who looked good, I would call her
    oregano
    oregano
    Yeah, I remember being driven around Silicon Valley with a classmate from HS and his GF, who were attending Santa Clara University, and this song came on Wild 107.7. They laughed and said "this is sure [oregano]'s song, ain't it?" It was true to the point I was laughing at myself.
    Zain
    I think I found another autistic dude at my job. He’s a newcomer. He mentioned reading philosophy and mentioned the Upanishads by name. It also seemed like he was talking at me rather than conversating some of the time, yet it felt much better and more comfortable than any conversation I’ve had there. I felt no pressure with him.
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    T
    thejuice
    That's one of the main things that convinced me I was autistic, how comfortable I was with other odd bods.I'm friends with a guy who must be 25 years older at least. My ex was 17 years older. In my opinion the most important thing is shared interests. Older people can be mentors too.
    Zain
    Zain
    It’s why I prefer being with older people. More mellow, less competitive, can share valuable wisdom. People my age are too vain, always seeking excitement, always wanting to be impressed or else your deemed as wasting their ‘precious’ time.
    T
    thejuice
    Exactly 💯
    Zain
    Prince of Persia: Sands of Time is one of the best movies for me.
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    D'Andre
    D'Andre
    I liked the movie too! I also liked the Wii game
    Zain
    Zain
    The games look too old for me 😅.
    T
    thejuice
    Yeah they're almost quarter of a century old now. Ancient in videogame terms! Almost same amount of time between current games and PS2, compared to the time between PS2 and Pong lol
    Zain
    I'm glad the "blackpill" is becoming more and more popular. Businessmen and entrepreneurs will see this and view a growing market and then desire to create something, a product, that we can buy to alleviate our suffering. Younger men cannot rely on their community for support.
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    tree
    tree
    People experiencing those states of being could
    profit by having psychotherapy.
    Zain
    Zain
    Maybe, maybe not. I don’t see the purpose of that comment.
    tree
    tree
    No, you probably don't.
    Zain
    If you didn't experience love between 16-20, you won't experience the full extent of love. As you get older, you get uglier. You lose your youthful features. You get less desirable. So why would it happen that you get into a relationship?
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    T
    thejuice
    Adolescent/ young adult love will probably be way more intense because of higher hormonal influence. Whether that's the "full extent" I don't know. Just different.
    Zain
    Zain
    The first time experiences is special - once in a lifetime. I can’t believe people give it to some random they know they likely will not stay with. It’s a shame, probably traumatic once they realise what they could have had.
    That’s be a good study.
    T
    thejuice
    Yeah I agree with that. I only experienced unrequited love sickness at a young age. Joy!! 😂When I was older i skipped the infatuation stage with my gf and went straight to the familiar love stage. Which is okay, I don't like intense experiences anyway.
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