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Would sex make a virgin male be more rational?

Discussion in 'Off Topic' started by Oddcampr8292, Dec 4, 2020.

  1. Oddcampr8292

    Oddcampr8292 Active Member

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  2. MyLifeAsAnAspie

    MyLifeAsAnAspie Well-Known Member

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    No
     
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  3. Rexi

    Rexi uwu owo uwu SlightlyFilterless Atheist Science=<3 V.I.P Member

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    The opposite, you could get addicted and obsessive over the act, person [special interest], you could start thinking about how it is affecting your life and stuff. You could use sex as a means of dealing with your psychical issues instead of solving them healthily.
     
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    Rexi uwu owo uwu SlightlyFilterless Atheist Science=<3 V.I.P Member

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    Testosterone, a hormone higher in men, may prohibit crying, adrenaline and cortisol are invved in stress. These last are usually triggered by the emotional instincts, but levels also differ from person to person. Trauma and past coping mechanisms can affect your feelings and make them harder to deal with so making you less rational however therapy would be the right treatment.

    I wouldn't suggest messing with the hormones without professional advice.
     
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    Au Naturel Au Naturel

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    I'm a bit confused here. The OP has no text. Just a title. Lack of context can make for irrelevant answers.

    I was a virgin male once and any offer of sex would have been gratefully accepted. Every male who is no longer a virgin had to start somewhere. Simply having had sex made my life much easier to bear because it relieved a lot of anxieties and answered many questions. To that extent, I suppose I would be more rational.

    Virginity was a heavy burden to bear, IMHO.
     
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    If the problem is that excessive horniness is causing you to be irrational, then I'd think having sex to calm the beast would make someone more rational, but isn't that what masturbation's for?
     
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    Oh brother. This is ridiculous. Of course not. Moving on.....
     
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    Well, if you're the only one in the room then...meh? why not. No std anyhow.

    Asked my adult son, 6'6" tall, strong, athletic, afro...he's a virgin. Says he is PROUD, that he is not letting his wife (he plans to have one) 'do' sex with him UNLESS...they get a Husky dog for a year and that works out. Then he will marry her and let her do sex with him ONE time for one baby. Ooooookay honey.
     
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    I'm not one to throw around Jonas Brothers quotes but allegedly, after Kevin Jonas got married and had intercourse for the first time, he said he had no idea what the fuss was about.
    And that's pretty much it in my view. It's way less of a great life-changing mystery than people make it out to be. And it certainly does not make one more rational by default. People be stressing too much
     
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    Sex can be fun. The only "rationalness" is like the first time or so where you're learning about physical things. The idea that sex is sacred to a lot of people, especially when first learning about options, you can become slightly more intelligent.

    Other than that, just enjoy it if context says you can!
     
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    It depends on the reason are you in a relationship ,if not it would be better to talk ,in a relationship and you both don't have anything that prohibits it then talk to someone .
     
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    I don't know. How about you try it and find out for yourself?
     
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    No - IMHO
     
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    I agree with many people who have said that the answer to your question is "no."

    What I'm really wondering is: What is the reason you asked, the background behind your question?
     
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