That really is a shame. But, on the other hand, I'm glad to hear that you found someone!@Knit Hat , but it is usually these self-involved guys that seem to get women to jump into bed with them when they take the bait. I knew one like that and both envied and hated him. Being an ethical person with interests and potential never got me that far for the longest time (far too long) to the point that I was going to give up on life, but finally a kind, accepting, woman noticed me.