My wife has a 19 yr old son with autism. He has been on several different meds and seems to be getting better anger wise but now has become more needy. I am fairly new in his life and have had many rage filled issues with him but I am not his biological father so my say is limited. My wife uses his autism for just about everything. I believe he can be taught to clean his room, which is always a complete dump but he complains and denies its his mess. Oh and another thing is she buys him just about whatever he wants and I don't feel that is right. My concerns or complaints are always met with denial and blow backs from her. She won't join any support groups which also concerns me. Before I get to my wits end when does the autism become an excuse?
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