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Love is personal. It involves choice, the choice of love and self work. Healthy love can't happen until both people have solved their issues. Unhealthy and unprogressing coping mechanisms can't make things last.
That being said it involves consequences for equalizing, mirroring of emotional involvement for equalizing and understanding for equalizing.
Some people are said to be unable of love, because their emotional experiences are limited.
Love is honest and automatically selfless. It gets easy to feel what you want to towards the person, to understand them beyond your needs and fears. That is when I think love starts to bloom.
You took an extremely difficult concept and broke it down in a very poetic fashion.
For me- love is a connection of mental, physical and spiritual. This rarely happens. We may connect on some levels but rarely on all. I take delight in their smiles, in their laughter, and all of what they share of themselves. Every day feels like a new beginning storyline to discover and connect.
Love is personal. It involves choice, the choice of love and self work. Healthy love can't happen until both people have solved their issues. Unhealthy and unprogressing coping mechanisms can't make things last.
That being said it involves consequences for equalizing, mirroring of emotional involvement for equalizing and understanding for equalizing.
Some people are said to be unable of love, because their emotional experiences are limited.
Love is honest and automatically selfless. It gets easy to feel what you want to towards the person, to understand them beyond your needs and fears. That is when I think love starts to bloom.
Mutual respect, understanding, and kindness. There is the sense sometimes of knowing you are loved, and then knowing you have someone to care about. It's one of the greatest things in the world.
Not married so cannot speak (and would not speak) of other aspects of this; however, affection & care for another is powerful. It is one of the few things that can make us, Aspies, realize we are actually normal in a way.
Love is when you care for someone's well-being more than your own.
"There are three things which are too wonderful for me,
Yes, four which I do not understand:
- The way of an eagle in the air,
- The way of a serpent on a rock,
- The way of a ship in the midst of the sea,
- And the way of a man with a virgin."
"There are three things which are too wonderful for me,
Yes, four which I do not understand:
- The way of an eagle in the air,
- The way of a serpent on a rock,
- The way of a ship in the midst of the sea,
- And the way of a man with a virgin."
Not outside of the "Religion" sub-forum, I can't (but one can Google it).Maybe you could give some context about that?
Not outside of the "Religion" sub-forum, I can't (but one can Google it).