SchrodingersMeerkat
trash mammal
My parents gave up trying to get me to quit talking about my special interests because they were realizing it was making me resent them and also suicidal. Now they could care less about meerkats or animals and love to hear what I have to say about them.
I fear I may have to cut someone in particular out of my life because they are not as accepting of my special interests. We used to date but then he broke up with me. I think he broke up with me because of my alexithymia and his tendency to take everything personally. I think he's grown out of the animals. He claims he still likes wolves but I doubt it. He's into that anime stuff not that there's anything wrong with that. But he's always watching to show me his original characters that are human and drawn in that anime style and talk about them but not wanting to hear about my original characters. My original characters are always animals. if I do have human original characters they are always villains for my animal characters to defeat. My animal character that represents me does not like humans due to the way she was treated as a pup and what she so happened to some of her friends.
Anyway? What do you do when people don't accept your special interest? I usually just cut them out of my life. I'm an adult now and no longer have to listen just so called therapist trying to change me to fit their perception of normal. I never wanted these friend things. And even if I did I think I would prefer them if they liked the same things I did. I won't let you people take my special interests from me. And I never did. Special interests are my main autistic trait. As an adult no one is trying to stop me from having them anymore. And I prefer it that way.
One of my older brother gets used to actually bully me about my special interest. He's coming around since he's gotten married but for a while I wanted to seriously disown him for the way he treated me.
I might cut this so-called friend out of my life too if he can't accept my special interest. Another thing I hate is a hypocrite. If he can talk about his original characters, then I should be able to talk about mine.
Anyway I'm just curious what other people do about people who don't accept their special interests. If they kick them to the curb like me or a nice and still try to make ways for people who won't accept your special interests.
I fear I may have to cut someone in particular out of my life because they are not as accepting of my special interests. We used to date but then he broke up with me. I think he broke up with me because of my alexithymia and his tendency to take everything personally. I think he's grown out of the animals. He claims he still likes wolves but I doubt it. He's into that anime stuff not that there's anything wrong with that. But he's always watching to show me his original characters that are human and drawn in that anime style and talk about them but not wanting to hear about my original characters. My original characters are always animals. if I do have human original characters they are always villains for my animal characters to defeat. My animal character that represents me does not like humans due to the way she was treated as a pup and what she so happened to some of her friends.
Anyway? What do you do when people don't accept your special interest? I usually just cut them out of my life. I'm an adult now and no longer have to listen just so called therapist trying to change me to fit their perception of normal. I never wanted these friend things. And even if I did I think I would prefer them if they liked the same things I did. I won't let you people take my special interests from me. And I never did. Special interests are my main autistic trait. As an adult no one is trying to stop me from having them anymore. And I prefer it that way.
One of my older brother gets used to actually bully me about my special interest. He's coming around since he's gotten married but for a while I wanted to seriously disown him for the way he treated me.
I might cut this so-called friend out of my life too if he can't accept my special interest. Another thing I hate is a hypocrite. If he can talk about his original characters, then I should be able to talk about mine.
Anyway I'm just curious what other people do about people who don't accept their special interests. If they kick them to the curb like me or a nice and still try to make ways for people who won't accept your special interests.