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Try to think positive

lovely_darlingprettybaby

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Hang in there, I have seen a few people negative and downcast over the last couple of days
I know there is another covid variant but people will make it bigger than it is.
The most important thing is do not give up
Things can always turn around and get better at any given time
Even if there does not seem like solutions there always are
Be a friend to others, you are all lovely on here
Just be yourself, I know autism is obviously a struggle and a battle.
I am proud of each of you on here that I have seen because everyone is really friendly and is incredibly strong and trying so hard each day with living with ASD
You are worth it and you are worthy humans
 

1ForAll

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I will start being positive today by saying I like your newest profile picture. Pretty picture there and your personality is sweet too. Now, as for myself, my mind automatically thinks of something good after I feel any needed negative thought or emotion and learn from any situation sooner than later. I focus only on my efforts, attitude and not instant results, as some things take longer to achieve, if we can even change some things, like a few things involving ourselves, as we certainly cannot change others and many life situations.

So, yeah, be true to yourself, and do what you can, when you can, and in the ways you can. We all are different there. Be kind to yourself and keep moving forward. I have faith in many persons to be their best or try their best. Allow days where we do not feel the best though, but try not to let those times keep us down for long. There are lots of good things out there about ourselves and in the world if we choose that path and break free from more negative pasts and present situations.
 

Wolfnox

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It’s been difficult. But, I still find wonder in new music and the idea of journeys to new places of existence.
 

lovely_darlingprettybaby

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I will start being positive today by saying I like your newest profile picture. Pretty picture there and your personality is sweet too. Now, as for myself, my mind automatically thinks of something good after I feel any needed negative thought or emotion and learn from any situation sooner than later. I focus only on my efforts, attitude and not instant results, as some things take longer to achieve, if we can even change some things, like a few things involving ourselves, as we certainly cannot change others and many life situations.

So, yeah, be true to yourself, and do what you can, when you can, and in the ways you can. We all are different there. Be kind to yourself and keep moving forward. I have faith in many persons to be their best or try their best. Allow days where we do not feel the best though, but try not to let those times keep us down for long. There are lots of good things out there about ourselves and in the world if we choose that path and break free from more negative pasts and present situations.
Thanks for saying it.
xxx
 

Mr. Stevens

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Gerald Wilgus

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It has been a rough end of week, but I've been through much in my life, and this too I will overcome; remembering good times with my friends.
 

Sasha22

No surrender
V.I.P Member
Just stumbled upon this - it's one of those self-help trendy posts, I know, and who knows how useful such a list can be. But hey thought I'd share anyway.

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Xinyta

Working on myself
Just stumbled upon this - it's one of those self-help trendy posts, I know, and who knows how useful such a list can be. But hey thought I'd share anyway.

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There are a good few of these that define the psychological torment I put myself through. Though the biggest on for me is "Fearing failure more than the desire for success". This sole belief is the crux of my whole problem growing up and what I am struggling to break now.
 

Sasha22

No surrender
V.I.P Member
I have a tendency to fear success as well [in addition to failure]. In fact I probably fear success more - more pressure there.
 
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Xinyta

Working on myself
It's not fearing success. It's being so afraid of making mistakes and failing, that success cannot happen. It's denying one's self the chance of trying things because you don't want to face failure. Basically self-sabotaging before you do anything. But in doing so, you deny yourself the capability to evolve as a person and better yourself.

To fear failure is to, ironically, fail yourself. To stick yourself in one spot and not leave it.
 

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