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Soup

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Hi!

My name is Soup. A few yrs ago I took an online A.S. test & scored 43. I took a similar one last yr & scored 41. I took another yesterday & scored 42. I'm looking to get formally tested & diagnosed asap but I'm unsure how to proceed. Autistic people & A.S. people recognize me as being like them.

I like reading, drawing & colouring, writing, words (etymology), my dog, psychology, extremely rare diseases, knowing scraps of information most people find useless. If an aspect of one of my interests, captures my focus, I can vanish inside of this interest to the exclusion of virtually anything else. I don't mean to imply that I literally disappear; I just become inaccessible.

Many A.S. people have a look to them: a peculiar way of dressing, for instance or that classic awkward nerdy look. I managed to fly under society's radar since I'm what society considers to be an attractive woman but I have the A.S. look in my eyes other A.S. people recognize immediately.

I like a narrow range of foods, prepared in a narrow range of ways. I don't like to be in photographs. I don't socialize with others unless I have to but I've become a good mimic & can pass for normal. I find doing so to be exhausting, draining, boring & seldom worth the effort.
 
Welcome to AC! We're a great group and there are lots of people in lots of stages of diagnosis here as well as relatives and friends of people with AS. I am glad that you found us please feel free to join the hoopla its a great place. :)
 
it sounds like you're quite talented and have a lot of aspie capabilities that fit in with female spectrum identity. good to have you around, you're likely to get along and enjoy discussing here at AC
 

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