anxiety247
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Awhile ago I finally told my longterm boyfriend that I am really sure I have aspergers. His response "No you don't, why would you think that" and I was upset at the time and only said that it's because I experience every symptom.
It was difficult for me to even bring it up that first time, and I've been expecting him to say something about it since then but he hasn't. I don't even know what to say to him to bring it up again.
I'm afraid he isn't taking it seriously. He's more skeptical about this kind of stuff, and has made fun of other people on the spectrum. I think that maybe the reason would be he can't believe that I do, because then his idea of Aspergers wasn't at all what he had thought it was.
I haven't told anyone else, but I feel like I should because I want people to understand my behavior sometimes is out of my control. I also say things sometimes without meaning to and I'm afraid people take it the wrong way, then never talk to me again. Eventually I just close up completely and don't talk at all, because then I wouldn't say something by accident that I didn't actually mean.
I can't get a real diagnosis unless I told my parents, because I am uncomfortable going there by myself. I'm also afraid that I'll experience what others experience, doctors who don't know or understand either enough to help me and say that I don't have it.
I am 99.9% sure I am Aspie or something that is related to all of these symptoms. There is nothing else to it. The symptoms are there and they are uncomfortable, I just don't see how others can't see it and see that I am struggling.
It was difficult for me to even bring it up that first time, and I've been expecting him to say something about it since then but he hasn't. I don't even know what to say to him to bring it up again.
I'm afraid he isn't taking it seriously. He's more skeptical about this kind of stuff, and has made fun of other people on the spectrum. I think that maybe the reason would be he can't believe that I do, because then his idea of Aspergers wasn't at all what he had thought it was.
I haven't told anyone else, but I feel like I should because I want people to understand my behavior sometimes is out of my control. I also say things sometimes without meaning to and I'm afraid people take it the wrong way, then never talk to me again. Eventually I just close up completely and don't talk at all, because then I wouldn't say something by accident that I didn't actually mean.
I can't get a real diagnosis unless I told my parents, because I am uncomfortable going there by myself. I'm also afraid that I'll experience what others experience, doctors who don't know or understand either enough to help me and say that I don't have it.
I am 99.9% sure I am Aspie or something that is related to all of these symptoms. There is nothing else to it. The symptoms are there and they are uncomfortable, I just don't see how others can't see it and see that I am struggling.