psychotopsy
Active Member
hello.
a lot of people make a big deal of who texts first. is it actually a big deal? i usually end up being the person who texts first in nearly all of my friendships and relationships. the only reason this is somewhat bothersome to me is because im not sure if that means something. people put so much pressure on who texts first and it seems that people generally think its a bad sign if you always text first because people tend to think that means the other person isnt as invested as you are. im not sure how much significance this has. sure, it'd be great if more people texted me first but even if i text first, they dont act like they dont want to talk to me. quite the opposite usually. so does it even matter?
a lot of people make a big deal of who texts first. is it actually a big deal? i usually end up being the person who texts first in nearly all of my friendships and relationships. the only reason this is somewhat bothersome to me is because im not sure if that means something. people put so much pressure on who texts first and it seems that people generally think its a bad sign if you always text first because people tend to think that means the other person isnt as invested as you are. im not sure how much significance this has. sure, it'd be great if more people texted me first but even if i text first, they dont act like they dont want to talk to me. quite the opposite usually. so does it even matter?