SliverOfSand
Well-Known Member
Ever since I was little, I have always been ‘spacing out’. My parents would tell me how I’d just sit on a swing, looking at the sky, for long periods of time... just doing nothing. They like to call me a sloth, which I don’t really mind too much.
But lately I’ve been noticing that I ‘space out’ quite a bit. Like, someone will ask me for something, and a minute later I forget it. Usually this happens while I’m doing something, whether it be reading, drawing, watching a video, or when deep in thought. Afterwards, I only remember when I see that person, or some object or word reminds me. I also find that I have a really hard time focusing on two things at once. For example, when I’m watching tv, and someone starts talking, I only hear one or the other. If I focus on the tv, I will only hear that, and vaguely understand what the other person is saying to me. This leads to situations where the other person is mad because I didn’t hear them right.
I also experienced this ‘one way’ thinking while driving. I just recently started to drive, and it’s manual with clutch. I’m pretty ok at it, but as soon as the person in the passenger seat asks me a question, I start losing my concentration to focus more on the question. I suspect that this could be because I am a visual thinker, and when a question is asked, I ‘see’ the answer in my mind. Hopefully when I’m more used to driving, it won’t affect me as much, but it still has quite an effect on my driving.
Has anyone else had a similar experience? I have read up on ADD a little bit, which seems to match what I experience, but I’m also wondering if this is a part of autism as well?
But lately I’ve been noticing that I ‘space out’ quite a bit. Like, someone will ask me for something, and a minute later I forget it. Usually this happens while I’m doing something, whether it be reading, drawing, watching a video, or when deep in thought. Afterwards, I only remember when I see that person, or some object or word reminds me. I also find that I have a really hard time focusing on two things at once. For example, when I’m watching tv, and someone starts talking, I only hear one or the other. If I focus on the tv, I will only hear that, and vaguely understand what the other person is saying to me. This leads to situations where the other person is mad because I didn’t hear them right.
I also experienced this ‘one way’ thinking while driving. I just recently started to drive, and it’s manual with clutch. I’m pretty ok at it, but as soon as the person in the passenger seat asks me a question, I start losing my concentration to focus more on the question. I suspect that this could be because I am a visual thinker, and when a question is asked, I ‘see’ the answer in my mind. Hopefully when I’m more used to driving, it won’t affect me as much, but it still has quite an effect on my driving.
Has anyone else had a similar experience? I have read up on ADD a little bit, which seems to match what I experience, but I’m also wondering if this is a part of autism as well?