Please read the ENTIRE thread before judging ”harsh.”
Realist started this thread about how he is not acknowledged and feels ignored. He does the very same thing and those calling him out on this fact are several posters. I would never had been “harsh” if Realist had been decent enough to respond to our (Several others in addition to myself) initially very helpful and kind posts to help him. They were well thought out, and had excellant ideas. Realist completely ignored these several posts. That hurts!
Realist says he is “sensitive” but hello- we are “sensitive “ too! Of course, other people’s feelings would never occur to Realist. He cannot imagine that his actions could cause others to feel bad, ignored, unacknowledged, because he is only inside his own head. That’s fine, but then do not ask others for help!
Realist went on other posts in which he talked about how bad SE people were and how his own country and rural place was so much better. He is sort of racist: unwilling to understand urban areas, and cultural differences without imparting stereotypes and judgements upon others. He is unaccepting of cultural diversity- which will continually keep him separated from others. This will cause him to seem very judgemental to others.
When he ignored several intelligent and kind attempts to figure out things, that is when people got a bit more “harsh.” Because Realist is not seeking solutions, and ignores people. One brings on from others what they give out. Realist is not seeking realistic solutions to his problems.
On top of that, Realist only talks about himself. “Me, me, me, and never once has shown that he has tried to understand from other people’s point of view. He continually says “They do not talk to me.” “They do not include me.” “They are all bad SE people,” while I and my rural Northern people are good. How, with that attitude will he make connections or friends? He constantly belittles an entire country of people (Some people from this very region of SE also posted to this thread with suggestions- that was extremely hurtful) with his unreasonable stereotypes and judgements, while elevating himself, yet, is unwilling to even acknowledge this obvious possibility is what is stopping him from having connections. How is this “harsh,” when he is so quick to denigrate everybody else, and only talk about “me, me, me.”
Sorry, but if he had only acknowledged several people’s posts here- even having a discussion that he disagreed, maybe so many people on this thread would not be so frustrated with him. Usually, people come and ask for help because they honestly want help. I am not alone in my thoughts here (read the entire thread). He does not want any help, nor does he want to accept any potential solutions for the situation that he alone got himself in. Maybe Realist is seeking pity to validate how he feels.