Hello,
I’m not quite sure what to put here, so I guess I’ll start by saying my name is Ruby I’m 24 (25 in June!) and I live in the UK. I’m currently undiagnosed and am seeking to get an assessment to confirm my thinking.
i’m currently signed off work as I’m in a pit of depression feeling as if I don’t fit in anywhere, I’m not too sure what I’m meant to do, and that the things I want to do aren’t really acceptable to be able to do at the age of 24.
I was diagnosed bipolar a year and a half ago, but never really felt like that was diagnosed properly. Specially as my psychiatrist at the time had only a few sessions with me. So felt he wasn’t able to grasp these signs after (what I now know to be) masking for so long. Since then I took the information given and thought okay well I’m going to spend my time doing “hobbies” to make me feel better, but soon realised I felt I had to stop them as I was allowed to enjoy them for restricted amounts of time; which in return made me depressed as I feel like I can’t be who I want to be.
so fast forward to now, I’m finding myself trying to alter most parts of my life to see if that makes me feel any better but I still come back to the same feeling of not being able to do/be who I want to be, not fitting in anywhere, struggling with friendships and relationships, emotions the list is endless.
To also throw in another spanner, is that I have (what I would class as) quiet severe childhood trauma which I have not managed to heal whatsoever, and I can’t seem to figure out if the symptoms/signs I am experiencing (and have been since I can remember) are just severe childhood trauma and these are coping strategies, or if I’ve been on the spectrum my whole life and what has happened to me is more traumatic due to me not being able to cope with it in the beginning, or even express to someone I am going through this I need help.
I’ve been doing my research and just feel like i’m finding explanations that really explain how I’ve felt my whole life but was never able to actually explain this is how I feel, and came across this site. I’m hoping by opening up this will help me connect with those who are diagnosed so I can ask some more questions and get a direct example of how being on the spectrum has had different effects on your life.
I really appreciate anyone responding to this, and thank you in advance. Not quite sure how to finish this, so have a great day!
I’m not quite sure what to put here, so I guess I’ll start by saying my name is Ruby I’m 24 (25 in June!) and I live in the UK. I’m currently undiagnosed and am seeking to get an assessment to confirm my thinking.
i’m currently signed off work as I’m in a pit of depression feeling as if I don’t fit in anywhere, I’m not too sure what I’m meant to do, and that the things I want to do aren’t really acceptable to be able to do at the age of 24.
I was diagnosed bipolar a year and a half ago, but never really felt like that was diagnosed properly. Specially as my psychiatrist at the time had only a few sessions with me. So felt he wasn’t able to grasp these signs after (what I now know to be) masking for so long. Since then I took the information given and thought okay well I’m going to spend my time doing “hobbies” to make me feel better, but soon realised I felt I had to stop them as I was allowed to enjoy them for restricted amounts of time; which in return made me depressed as I feel like I can’t be who I want to be.
so fast forward to now, I’m finding myself trying to alter most parts of my life to see if that makes me feel any better but I still come back to the same feeling of not being able to do/be who I want to be, not fitting in anywhere, struggling with friendships and relationships, emotions the list is endless.
To also throw in another spanner, is that I have (what I would class as) quiet severe childhood trauma which I have not managed to heal whatsoever, and I can’t seem to figure out if the symptoms/signs I am experiencing (and have been since I can remember) are just severe childhood trauma and these are coping strategies, or if I’ve been on the spectrum my whole life and what has happened to me is more traumatic due to me not being able to cope with it in the beginning, or even express to someone I am going through this I need help.
I’ve been doing my research and just feel like i’m finding explanations that really explain how I’ve felt my whole life but was never able to actually explain this is how I feel, and came across this site. I’m hoping by opening up this will help me connect with those who are diagnosed so I can ask some more questions and get a direct example of how being on the spectrum has had different effects on your life.
I really appreciate anyone responding to this, and thank you in advance. Not quite sure how to finish this, so have a great day!