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So it is me again! Does anyone find it pretty impossible to ask for things?

I generally don't ask for help as I feel I am inconveniencing the other person.

I also imagine that if I ask someone to do something for me they may agree, but then moan or complain about it to others.

I suppose I find it hard to belive that anyone could be willing to do something for me without wanting something in return.

I find it hard to assess whether my request would be reasonable, appropriate and/or acceptable so worry that I would be asking too much of a person.

I expect that I should somehow know whether or not a person is able to do what I am asking, without even asking them. So that if I ask someone to do something for me and they are not able to I feel bad for 'having got it wrong'.
 
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